I am referral friendly and try to respond rather quickly. I am all about keeping us safe and comfortable.
In order for me to give you as a reference; I prefer an email notice in advance of when you saw me, info about our time together, and what we talked about so I will remember seeing you. And I don't always remember everyone either, sorry!
As a provider of sensual services, we know that most of the men who see ladies like to "sample". It is just part of the business. If we got jealous of all of our clients seeing other ladies it would eat away at our psyche and drive us to the nut house.
In all honesty, I do get a little perturbed though when a gentleman uses me as a reference and expects me to remember him from 5+ years ago. Heck, I can barely remember what happened yesterday! Time flies......and 10-years seems like 5, five years seems like three, etc.
I'd prefer not to give a reference that old, I feel you should come see me again, then I'll give you a reference. But safety is paramount over my quirks. Surely you've seen someone else more current! I know of many ladies will not give or accept references that are more than 6-months old.
Once again, I'd like to personally encourage everyone to sign up for P411 so we won't have the reference issues!
Originally Posted by Elizabeth Murray
Thanks Elizabeth
Just had a great time with a traveling provider and talked about the subject. She also said that she doesn't like to recommend anyone she hasn't seen within the last six months. That's perfectly understandable. I also have a hard time remembering what I did six months ago. Also, as much as I don't want to think about it, some providers see a lot of guys. So unless I was Brad Pitt or had a monster member, I don't know that any guy is that memorable. I will say that this lady just told me she would do me anytime. So, I will remember her. Thanks again for your response.