What's your motivation?

Whispers's Avatar
The fulfillment of lifelong sexual fantasies with smokin' hot women without the chase. So far, mission accomplished! Originally Posted by PDid

Well Said....



to sleep with women that would tell me no in civie life Originally Posted by funnyboy
You should have more self confidence

Hoping to fill some holes...... (in my life ) Originally Posted by Netx9

It's been noticed..... Sad actually that you look here for personal validation......


I love what I do...Just Saying...Dezirie Originally Posted by Dezirie
Counting her money when she brings it home to you?

Its cheaper less time consuming to buy strange than chase strange. Originally Posted by flinde
LOL! Well Said!

... And we love that you love it! Originally Posted by Netx9
that he counts her money? How do you know when you are shamelessly flirting with her vs her husband?


This hobby is a many splendid thing that has a lot of risks but, if done right, many rich rewards. That said, what's your motivation for participation?

As a monger are you chasing the idea of the perfect experience? Looking for intimacy that you can't find with your SO? Just trying to get off as much as you can with the hottest chicks you can find? What brings you back every time?

As a provider, is it great money good sex? Does the thrill of guys lusting after you keep you going? Do you like providing pleasure in the world?

Be honest (or at least amusing!) Originally Posted by shaktaSA
Just trying to get off as much as I can with the hottest chicks I can find!
Precious_b's Avatar
Cheaper than a psychologist/psychiatrist.
And much more intimate on levels of contact.
Netx9's Avatar
  • Netx9
  • 11-25-2013, 11:01 PM
Cheaper than a psychologist/psychiatrist.
And much more intimate on levels of contact. Originally Posted by Precious_b
Who needs a psychologist when you can get Dr. Whispers' assessment for free! Thanks doc. You've given me a lot to think about....

... Ok, done thinking.

Travelerman, guy fakes, desperado, boredinsatx, klittylicker, Tracy, Candi... Don't feel left out that the good doctor hasn't commented on your posts. I'm sure he'll get around to it.
Precious_b's Avatar
You can keep the "intimate levels of contact" for yourself on that second opinion, Netx9
SpiceItUp's Avatar
I participate so I can actually experience what many men only see in porn. Nuru, threesomes, face fucking, gaping anal, sex with women half my age, sex with women out of my league...etc

The hobby allows men to experience, albeit within these narrow confines, what attractive women feel all the time. Specifically, the freedom to essentially pick and choose their ideal sexual partner. Hmm today I feel like a tiny Asian spinner who likes to deepthroat... Tomorrow maybe a tall blond who takes it in the ass

Variety is the spice of life, so let's SpiceItUp baby!
Guest021420's Avatar
All well said. For me, it's the combination of the rush of new sexual encounters and the taboo of the hobby itself that gives me the biggest rush. Operating in this subculture, by itself, is stimulating. It's like being in a secret society. Mix that with the total sexual freedom you get to experiment with and this is a hard to stop!
sms918's Avatar
ooh, do I feel like being attacked. ooh well.


Precious_b, exactly wish my insurance covered like they do chiropractors/shrinks.

obviously most men are here for women(some I have no clue why their here), most providers here for money( some enjoy playing, others not so much)

some guys live out fantasies
some see other people than so
some no so


I know it's better than therapy, self help, or group program. Although it can be very addicting.(I never saw a shrink like one of our providers and certainly never left their "office" feeling as good or relaxed.)
This hobby is a many splendid thing that has a lot of risks but, if done right, many rich rewards. That said, what's your motivation for participation?

As a monger are you chasing the idea of the perfect experience? Looking for intimacy that you can't find with your SO? Just trying to get off as much as you can with the hottest chicks you can find? What brings you back every time?

As a provider, is it great money good sex? Does the thrill of guys lusting after you keep you going? Do you like providing pleasure in the world?

Be honest (or at least amusing!) Originally Posted by shaktaSA
I'm sure no one here is going to say they don't absolutely enjoy it lol... That would be bad for business.

Anyway, as a provider... Most important thing and the reason I do this is $$ but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy guys I see... I enjoy all my returning friends obviously, or I wouldn't see them again... So as you said "great money good sex" I would have to agree and say those four words nailed it for me hehe but I would change it around to "good money great sex".
Cuz I'm horny????

Just wanted to try and get underneath Karla! hee hee
Just wanted to try and get underneath Karla! Originally Posted by jtmtexas
Just wanted to squish jtmtexas!
A Karla sandwich with me as the filling..... and you wonder why I hobby???
A Karla sandwich with me as the filling..... and you wonder why I hobby??? Originally Posted by jtmtexas
sa2ny76's Avatar
Karla is my motivation.....
Karla is my motivation..... Originally Posted by sa2ny76
Hehe thanks... I guess that means we need to meet!!
sa2ny76's Avatar
yes....can you pm new number so we can make arrangements..