My story with Cherry Red

Pay, fuck, leave. Repeat as necessary. Do anything different and you are a fucking idiot; don't bring your bullshit here.

Why do you let her do this to you? Just pay money for sex dammit! Leave it at that.

I don't know what you're talking about old friend. I was happy to read about the tattoo. I was hoping I wasn't the only one. I have tattooed the names of all the women I've seen on my back, as well as the date I saw them, activities that took place, and a brief synopsis of the encounter. You never know when you may need that info again. The wife doesn't really like it much, especially when new ones are added. Originally Posted by kcbigpapa

Guess I just getting soft in my old age.

I don't understand why people feel sorry for this dumb ass. He hires a hooker and a few sessions later, he is so in love with her that he tattoos her fake name on his body? Nutcase, stalker, U need to run away from this delusional idiot, would be the right response from the provider. Us men are hard wired to melt at the sight of female beauty, and when they are also nice and treat you right, the tendency is to think you are special to them. Great, if you're not paying for it. Even in a non-paying relationship (is there such a thing?) she owes you nothing just because she called you "baby" or "honey". But to wonder "why is she doing this to me" is just asinine. She did it because you crossed the line of a business relationship and thought you were "special." I think if I were a provider and had a dude who wants to be the first one to talk to me in the morning and the last one at night and tattoos my name in his back and sends me presents and so on, I'd be afraid and would think of a way send the creep the message to stay away and go see if any other woman in the world puts up with his whining.

There is no such thing as a non paying relationship. Free pussy is much more expensive in the long run. This is worth repeating-love does not buy food-there is no such thing as a non paying relationship. I dont feel sorry for him. Perhaps he learned a valuable lesson.

I don't understand why people feel sorry for this dumb ass. He hires a hooker and a few sessions later, he is so in love with her that he tattoos her fake name on his body? Nutcase, stalker, U need to run away from this delusional idiot, would be the right response from the provider. Us men are hard wired to melt at the sight of female beauty, and when they are also nice and treat you right, the tendency is to think you are special to them. Great, if you're not paying for it. Even in a non-paying relationship (is there such a thing?) she owes you nothing just because she called you "baby" or "honey". But to wonder "why is she doing this to me" is just asinine. She did it because you crossed the line of a business relationship and thought you were "special." I think if I were a provider and had a dude who wants to be the first one to talk to me in the morning and the last one at night and tattoos my name in his back and sends me presents and so on, I'd be afraid and would think of a way send the creep the message to stay away and go see if any other woman in the world puts up with his whining. Originally Posted by golard

Thank you dude. Your words might sound harsh, but they are so true, especially the "baby" and "honey" explanation. I was always confused by that since I am a ESL. After being thru all these, I took out my delusion but still cannot completely get rid of my obsession with her. To be honest with you all, I met her 3 times just a day after I wrote the story. The 3 times all went well in Lawrence, and she apologized for last time. I know it's important to look at it as business when doing the session, but I like to look at this as a friendship when session is done (we text each other and I still help her a bit) rather than just two complete strangers. I don't know how this story with her is gonna end, but I would rather let the time and life put a period than myself. I just gave my credit card to my roommate and let him keep it so I won't be able to give her excessive help in the future. It sounds stupid but we will see how it works.

And thanks again for your words. I will try to memorize some sentences to remind myself the situation in the future

Let me make it as clear as possible for you.

What you see when you look at, talk to, or think about her: A lovely girl, a friend, a person who likes you.

What she sees when she looks at, talks to, or thinks about you:





If you believe differently, tell her you're short of money at the moment, and would like to get together anyway. Let us know how that works out for you.

Wow. A tattoo too! You will regret that in few years from now. Your problem is not that you are young, few of us are pretty young here, but you are just stupid and can't handle your own life. Good luck with cherry_red, k_7, and once she told me to call her little girl, add that to your tattoo

Wow. A tattoo too! You will regret that in few years from now. Your problem is not that you are young, few of us are pretty young here, but you are just stupid and can't handle your own life. Good luck with cherry_red, k_7, and once she told me to call her little girl, add that to your tattoo Originally Posted by remonarem

Is k_7 kiara Kute? Why is it 7?

Oh man......what......dude....... .stop it......tattoo.....smh......Yo u just can't get that attached man some of these girls are cool as shit and they will be your freind to a degree that still doesnt mean that they want you blowing them up all the time if your not gonna make an appointment. .... its pretty clear that all she sees is $ signs with you if you want a regular there are plenty of great girls that will give you quality service every time leave cherry red alone and move in bro this isn't a dating site its a fucking site.... if your looking for something serious try match.com or e harmony good luck buddy

(we text each other and I still help her a bit) rather than just two complete strangers. I don't know how this story with her is gonna end. It sounds stupid but we will see how it works.
Originally Posted by Etakappanu

Man, you're just not getting it. The story with her has ended. But you're still hoping that by doing things for her she'll fall for you. Listen, pretty girls are used to dumb asses wanting to put the world at their feet just to be with them. Here, all you have to do is pay her, as the rest of us can. How it will work is that you will never be special enough for her and she'll chase you off again for good the next time she gets tired of your sorry ass or you get to asking for more than she's willing to give. At that point it could get ugly. Go bang another provider and quit whining. GEEEEEZ!!

To be honest with you all, I met her 3 times just a day after I wrote the story. The 3 times all went well in Lawrence, and she apologized for last time. Originally Posted by Etakappanu

So let me get this straight. You got on here and gave this girl a bad review telling everyone to stay away from her. Then you posted an alert to stay away from her, AND posted this sob story hoping for sympathy. And after all that... you went back and saw her 3 times the very next day?

You are beyond help. You want to see where this is going to end? Everyone has told you how it is going to end... you are going to be out a bunch of money and nothing to show for it. This provider doesn't see you for anything more than a wallet. That is it.
Don't believe me? How many of those 3 times were free? One could argue that the first one should be given that she ended your last session abruptly. But of the other two? Did you have to pay for those?

To be honest with you all, I met her 3 times just a day after I wrote the story. Originally Posted by Etakappanu

You know there are times that I think to myself, maybe you aren't the brightest bulb in the chandelier or maybe I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer. This is what I says to meself as I'm laying in bed at night. Then I come across something like this thread and then I says to meself, I'm OK.