To the OP:+1 Agreed. OP, not all Providers will run just because of this. Keep trucking along and Happy Hobbying!
You have text messages with the address? text messages up to the point where she "canceled" (yet failed to let you know)?
How does this happen? (this is direct to the provider)
When a gentlemen that I have not seen before first contacts me, I let him know I received his inquiry and that my screening process has began.
The only way my address goes out (even my hotel name if I am on tour) is the screening process has been completed and passed with flying colors.
Is this a new trend of confirming a date BEFORE screening has happened?
And THEN once you do start screening, if the gent doesn't pass, you just not communicate with him any longer?
I am in NO way trying to flame or throw shade to anyone, OP or Provider.
I'm merely trying to understand how this "new" way of TCB is actually done, and done successfully. (since I'm from the old school of pre-screening my dates or even public meets BEFORE hand)
AND regardless if this is his first post, or his 700th, it shouldn't matter since we ALL had to start somewhere...
OP, if you report your experiences factually (truthfully) without emotion and without malice towards your "wrong-doer" you will go far (in my eyes) around here.
Ignore the fluff and constant ass-kissing (pardon my french) that has become the norm around here by those that are very obvious with their deeds.
Oh, and Welcome!
*curtsy*
~Genesis Nicole~
Originally Posted by GenesisNicole
