Nope. Id say you dont forgive her. Just about everyone in this line of things is experienced in relationships, and she chose to do ALLLLL that, she should suffer the consequences.
I have once stolen a girls Bob Marley T-shirt in 8th grade ( not kool). I lifted some candy in elementary school annnnnddd.....
i have a story of shame and i speak this with slighty drunk fingers.... but me and a friend had a falling out and i kept his redbox dvds. =/
All thats very wrong. Young mistakes..... Besides the dvds, that was this year, but hey i was upset. =/ (sorry friend, it was complicated, and that was spiteful and WRONG)
Long story short, idk how old she is, but I think unless she was 16, she shouldnt be forgiven. People know better after a while. (i decided right now to pay for those dvds lol)
Especially when it comes to realizing someone is THAT untrustworthy, no amount of letter writing should fix it. I wouldnt support or trust a selfish oppurtunist.
I wouldnt trust them because THEY CANT BE TRUSTED.
I'm personally dealing with issues of trust with regular RW friends who are just oppurtunists so this kind of bugs me. But Its not an issue for me, because SCREW them. When people feel like they're getting taking advantage of they're probally rarely wrong.
"Actions speak louder than words", I think is a concept that is truly grasped by respectable people and I'd bet she's heard that a million and three times.... Thats one of those quotes that i think should be understood by anyone I associate with. By the time we are mature enough to be in this industry i think its MANDATORY to have that mindset. And if not, you should gets no love. lol.
I bet i sound cold.
But id be like "thanx for the apology. I am disappointed, and goodbye"
Keep in mind, junkies are a whole different kind of people. The level of conniving for their fix runs deeeeep. And a girl in jail has nothing but time to word sweet words. I think when theres "financial help" involved, and theres a problem like this, you should follow your mind and no other parts of your body.
Gold digging isnt curable lol.
-Dr Sarah