Wtf is happening here?
I forgot the question already.
I don't know if you meant this as rude as I interpreted it, but I thought I'd reply to your comment. It is a valid question. From the way I view it, if I was in a relationship and I was still providing...I would not feel like I was cheating on my partner. This is my job. This is no different, to me, than going to work for Corporate America. If you handle yourself as a provider professionally and look at this as a career, etc...then I don't find it the same as cheating. This would also mean that your partner would have to respect what you do and know that it is your line of work. With that being said, she is very right and entitled to care that her ex-partner cheated. Just my two cents, any way...One problem you did not bring up in your response. What if the provider/wife failed to take care of her husband? There needs to be some intimacy at a physical level in every relationship. If she is not taking care of hubbie, then she has no right to be pissed if he cheats.
Originally Posted by bambigirl
I don't know if you meant this as rude as I interpreted it, but I thought I'd reply to your comment. It is a valid question. From the way I view it, if I was in a relationship and I was still providing...I would not feel like I was cheating on my partner. This is my job. This is no different, to me, than going to work for Corporate America. If you handle yourself as a provider professionally and look at this as a career, etc...then I don't find it the same as cheating. This would also mean that your partner would have to respect what you do and know that it is your line of work. With that being said, she is very right and entitled to care that her ex-partner cheated. Just my two cents, any way...Not trying to be mean, it's a legitimate question. Good luck with your career BambiGirlOriginally Posted by bambigirl