I was asked for advice by a newbie provider...

According to eccie guidelines

#9 - No form of private communications between members are to be posted in our forums. This includes the contents of emails,*PMs, IMs, private chat logs, privately shared images, etc. This is an invasion of another's privacy and will not be allowed. Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

I understand that, but on more than one occasion by more than one mod I have had that translated as: I cannot reveal what YOU write to ME since that would invade YOUR privacy. However I can reveal what I wrote to SOMEONE (not defined) because that does not invade anyone's privacy but my own, and I own that.

Not saying that was the original intent, or that all mods would see it that way, but some clearly do.

The same thing with revealing things that I originally put in private markings--I have every right to make MY comments public at a later date so long as it does not divulge anyone else's comments/handles from the private realm.

I understand that, but on more than one occasion by more than one mod I have had that translated as: I cannot reveal what YOU write to ME since that would invade YOUR privacy. However I can reveal what I wrote to SOMEONE (not defined) because that does not invade anyone's privacy but my own, and I own that.

Not saying that was the original intent, or that all mods would see it that way, but some clearly do.

The same thing with revealing things that I originally put in private markings--I have every right to make MY comments public at a later date so long as it does not divulge anyone else's comments/handles from the private realm. Originally Posted by Old-T

Dorfy does a great Donald impression and I don't mean the duck.

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Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Im donald trump of eccie duh

I The ones who have the great sex and the meaningful friendships. The people who get can figure out that last bit are the ones who eat the ripest sex fruit, because guess what...women have waaaaaaay more to offer sexually, erotically, and sensually than just a wet hole. The good men are the ones that know how to make it through the appropriate levels to arrive to the fun stuff. How to be a good lover to a woman 101 shit, guys. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

Your comments and the OP"s are wonderful! The best sex I've had came from wooing a woman"s heart, mind, spirit, ambition, and body. Polyamoury is a great way to live.

I'm sure there are some things that could be added to this list, but I agree with all of the items listed.

I have only one person that was worth the kind of money that is being spent today. She was married, he husband made big bucks, but liked sex and charged for it. She was incredible, nasty, sexy, all in the same moment. I have not met anyone even close. I cannot figure out paying 300 to 400 for a 160 experience.