Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie???

hmmm, and this is coming from a guy who has brad pitt as his avatar pic. Originally Posted by dirty diana

Yuck! Who wants to see Brad Pitt??
I don't see any pics of Brad Pitt.....
I see a hot and sexy Johnny Depp!

Here's one that is before BCD. Why do some providers lie about their ages in ads? I know age is a sensitive issue with women, but come on please. I now routinely add 5 to 10 years for any provider whose age is 30 or older. Don't get me wrong. I don't mind spending time with a more mature provider, but there are times when I want a younger provider.

Here's one that is before BCD. Why do some providers lie about their ages in ads? I know age is a sensitive issue with women, but come on please. I now routinely add 5 to 10 years for any provider whose age is 30 or older. Don't get me wrong. I don't mind spending time with a more mature provider, but there are times when I want a younger provider. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

What are you talking about? I am 34years old, until august that is...you don't need to add any more on to that. If you prefer younger, that's your choice, but just because you do not want a 34year old, don't 'pretend' like I'm 39 or 44...what sense does that make?? I don't get it.

The honest fact is the "TRUTH" hurts more than anything, as Jack Nicholson said you/most people can not handle the truth. People present false hoods about themselves everyday, if they did not then plastic surgeons would not be getting rich off of implants, botox, and body reconstruct surgery. Honesty is reality and we as a culture of people do as much as we can to get away from reality.

WOW Tiffany...a girl after my own heart! YES IT"S JOHNNY DEPP!!!!! I KNEW I liked you, girl!

After reading some of these responses over and over, I just feel like I have to make a statement. "All Lies"? I can ONLY speak for myself but I genuinely LOVE what I do! Maybe being a regular therapist helps me in that the fun stuff isn't like a "REAL" job as it is for some of the ladies here.

I can honestly say that I enjoy each and every session whether it is therapeutic or not! When a "fun session" comes around, it's ALWAYS fun! Do I click more with some than others? Of course! That is just human nature. Do I lie and do all kinds of fake stuff? No, my brain is way too tired for all that falsifying! LOL!

Okay, I'll not stay on my soapbox and rant but I really dislike being lumped into any category ESPECIALLY when it isn't true!

P.S. Kisses to you, Tiffany!

What are you talking about? I am 34years old, until august that is...you don't need to add any more on to that. If you prefer younger, that's your choice, but just because you do not want a 34year old, don't 'pretend' like I'm 39 or 44...what sense does that make?? I don't get it. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

I've had some experiences where the provider advertises being 38 and she's much closer to 48. A little truth in advertising would be nice. To me it borders on bait and switch. We all know how much that is despised in the hobby.

WOW Tiffany...a girl after my own heart! YES IT"S JOHNNY DEPP!!!!! I KNEW I liked you, girl!

After reading some of these responses over and over, I just feel like I have to make a statement. "All Lies"? I can ONLY speak for myself but I genuinely LOVE what I do! Maybe being a regular therapist helps me in that the fun stuff isn't like a "REAL" job as it is for some of the ladies here.

I can honestly say that I enjoy each and every session whether it is therapeutic or not! When a "fun session" comes around, it's ALWAYS fun! Do I click more with some than others? Of course! That is just human nature. Do I lie and do all kinds of fake stuff? No, my brain is way too tired for all that falsifying! LOL!

Okay, I'll not stay on my soapbox and rant but I really dislike being lumped into any category ESPECIALLY when it isn't true!

P.S. Kisses to you, Tiffany! Originally Posted by vnurse

Johnny Depp is just too fucking HOT!! Am I right??

Yes, I feel the same...which is why I commented on the age post...I honestly don't make stuff up, and I DON'T play make beleive! The way I see it, I have no reason too. Either they enjoy being with me, and they want to spend their time and money on me, or they don't.

I am a little offended with this thread, not so much by the OP because I understand there is something going on that had upset him, but I am more so offended by the posts that other providers have posted on here. I mean, seriously? You lie to them and treat them like they are ignorant? And they pay you for that?? Then you post it for all the world to see???

VNURSE- Kisses to you babe!

oopsie daisy! that is jd isn't it? i fell like such a muff! (my new term for idiot)

can we guess what movie this is from:

"i'm a honest ho! and all my hoes is honest!" one of my all time faves =)

LOL....great subject! I weave some truths. Everyone I see needs to feel better about something and sometimes I need the little or blatant white lie told to me as well. I know that I am no Miss America, but the people who have told me I'm beautiful and it came across as heart felt, made me feel as though I was. Those who have told me I look much younger than my age are now my BEST friends...LOL I love weavers of the truth!

This is a feel good occupation and if I can't make someone feel good using the tools I have (my mind's imagination, my body, my toys...etc), I don't have any business doing what I do and need to get my butt back to the corporate world. So far, soooo good and no danger of that happening anytime soon!

As for being offended.....no way! Being different is what makes the world go around. I would be soooo bored if I thought everyone perceived things in the same manner and light and so would the gentlemen. Every lady in this biz does/says what she has to or needs to in order to either cope with or enjoy more so what it is she does. Some are just better at communicating than others, some are hillariously honest, and others are just a little bit sensitive. All the gentleman on the board don't like the exact same type of personality....a lot of them really enjoy the fiestiness of one lady , while others enjoy the sex kitten type who would never utter a disrespectful word. Ain't it ALL great!?!?!?

I'm sorry to see this. I can't even begin to understand exactly where this came from. Can't it just be that there is a way for people to meet and enjoy spending time together in a "no harm no foul" atmosphere? That's really simplistic, I know. Call it dreams, call it fantasy but it's nothing more or less than the chance to make wishes come true. And that is the truth.

Hmmmm, How about a thread asking, "Why do you gents use avatars that in no way shape or form look like you?" LOL. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

For the win!

"i'm a honest ho! and all my hoes is honest!" one of my all time faves =)

"i'm a honest ho! and all my hoes is honest!" one of my all time faves =) Originally Posted by looiecypher

Harlem Nights

Most of the lies told by providers and clients alike can be considered "little white lies"
She is most likely telling you things she thinks you want to hear and vice versa.Really no harm no foul.

MAX
Very well spoken...the other providers before you didn't sound half as reasonable. The way you explained it, it is very much accpeptable for the little white lies to make someone feel good. I, however, don't have that talent. But like you said, we all have our ways about us and that is a good thing!

The solution seems obvious to the most casual observer: During the session don’t ask dumb questions: 1) if you are afraid to hear a truthful answer or 2) you don’t to be the cause, of the lady feeling she must stretch the truth, to spare your ego. The motto, ask me no questions, I will tell you no lies, should be emblazed on every headboard!

PS Vicki…should you and Tiffany ever get together…I’d Love to be there!

M AX Get Well Soon!