The firm pressure that lets me know that I'm not in control and the little dirty words in my ear that makes me not resist you!! Hotttt!!! Originally Posted by babydollsnowI find it crazy hot when a woman is comfortable enough to submit like this; that she trusts me enough, but I love "power play" also. If she's riding cowgirl or taking control for a BJ, bring on the choke/pressure and hair pulling.