Anyway, my job doesn't include a lot of travel, so for the most part I want to have quality providers stop here in Nash. However, I hesitate to book very far in advance because when I do go out of town it's usually short notice and not very flexible, so I feel bad making an appt. that I might have to cancel. Yes, I should PM or email my interest regardless, and I'll try to do that on future.
Another reason I hesitate is that I'm gunshy, honestly. I've been burned before due to my own carelessness, and it's made me paranoid past the normal and required level for this hobby. When I see a provider ad that piques my interest, I check every detail I can possibly find, and still I hesitate. Just that uncertainty, which I guess is exactly what LEO wants, since every guy too wary to make an appt. is one step closer to that provider skipping Nash altogether. Yes, there's plenty of info on traveling ladies, but many of us good guys who'll treat them right are still wary, especially of meeting in Metro.
As an example, I would *love* to see Dallas Rain, Belinda and Babee, though not at the same time until I'm ready to take a dozen Viagra and just die smiling. The problem comes when these ladies only stop in for a couple days or, even worse, just the weekend. My weekends are FAR too full to allow a meeting then, and it only takes one weekday must-do to cause me to miss these lovelies completely. Again, I feel it's unfair for me to schedule much in advance; if my having to cancel messed up a lady's visit (money-wise, of course), I'd feel really bad, deservedly or not.
Originally Posted by Slothrop
My issues tend to be a bit different. I get paid once a month on the last workday of the month, so that my month's hobby budget is pretty much coming from last month's paycheck. And I pull the hobby trigger on a whim, almost reflexively. So it's, say, the second or third of the month, and I see that someone's going to be available in a few days, so I pull the trigger.
Many is the month where it's the 10th of the month or so, and I've already blown through that month's hobby budget. And of course that means that on the 12th or 13th some provider-I've-wanted-to-see-for-years announces that she's visiting Memphis later that month. Which means I'm screwed. Or rather I'm not being screwed (in the fun way!
) by that provider.
I have the exact opposite problem with respect to weekends; I tend to spend long days on the job, and most weeknights I'm too tired and apathetic to want to shower, groom, and go see someone. I'd really prefer seeing ladies over the weekend, when my schedule is a bit more flexible and I'm not so exhausted from the workday. Not to mention that over a weekend I have the flexibility to run to Little Rock, Nashville, Jackson (MS), or St. Louis to catch someone whose travels may not bring them to Memphis. (On the other hand, there are a number of ladies on my "must see" list who frustrate me because, while they'll visit Nashville, LR, or St. Louis, they only do so during the week, when I can't run to meet them while they're there).
Cheers,
bcg