The appeal of anal

I've discussed taboos with a hobbyist before. Anal/anus is seen as a "no-no place" because it's seen as a part of the body where things are meant to go out than in ie poop. So it's not seen as a "sexy place" because of that so doing (literally) something associated with a taboo becomes ... sexy, arousing.

I have always been curious as to what the appeal of anal sex is. I, for one, find it distasteful but I would like some input from both guys and gals as to what it is about the act that attracts them to it. From my perspective it just doesn't really seem like it would feel good. Plus, the idea of going up someone's backside leaves me with unpleasant thoughts. What do you all have to say? Originally Posted by Zix-Zax the Almost Wise

I have always been interested with the mechanics of how a women gets off through anal. Like does it hit nerves you cannot hit normally? From the perspective of a person who has never tried anal I don't really understand how a women could get off to it. I know that in the case of men, they get off because of the stimulation to the prostate. Do women have a similar "spot?"

That depends on the woman.... i know some who can cum from anal w/ no other stimulation and some can't.

There are nearly as many nerve endings in the anus as the clit. a little rubbing of the brown eye while going down on a woman can result in a serious headlock. Be careful

It's a litmus test of a kind. Some girls I've been with hate the idea of it while others crave it. Preparation is the key.

The female orgasm is one of the most complex and misunderstood phenomena in science. fMRI which shows exactly where the brain lights up shows inconsistencies that are inexplicable. Females of human species are the only ones that are multi orgasmic and use foreplay as regular part of sex. Considering the entire animal kingdom, female humans very impressive species with prodigious sexual skills (and anachronisms) that are truly unique.

And wonderful.

Interesting so that part of the body is another nerve center for sensation. I guess that makes more sense now as to why a woman might enjoy that.

The female orgasm is one of the most complex and misunderstood phenomena in science. fMRI which shows exactly where the brain lights up shows inconsistencies that are inexplicable. Females of human species are the only ones that are multi orgasmic and use foreplay as regular part of sex. Considering the entire animal kingdom, female humans very impressive species with prodigious sexual skills (and anachronisms) that are truly unique.

And wonderful. Originally Posted by 19Trees

so basically they are good at faking it.


as for anal, I rarely get offered it due to size issues. i'm not even John Holmes Jr but I guess it's a sensitive issue for ladies. I usually don't even ask. Definitely easier to catch diseases in the poop chute.

Latent homosexuals... Originally Posted by governmentguru

All I can say is that I'm a lesbian. I only go for women.

Hmmm,

Don't think any comment so far gets at my semi-limited experience.

First, the 'taboo' factor is a turn on for me. But, that said, it's a different physical sensation. Vaginally, usually you are gripped along along your shaft. Anally, there's a ring where you penetrate and then there is less closure. Each is fabulous in it's own way.

I for one LOVE the act... I can't get enough of it.. I just love pleasing women in general.. So any providers out there that would like to try it with me, please send me a PM.

with the right partner and the right lube, it's da bomb dot com.

however, too many guys hardly even know what to do with a pussy... so upgrading them is out of the question :P

with the right partner and the right lube, it's da bomb dot com.

however, too many guys hardly even know what to do with a pussy... so upgrading them is out of the question :P Originally Posted by Datura

Civilian guys or Hobby guys??

my opinion would be Hobby guys are not really concerned about their performance nor do they care since they are paying for it.



Civie guys, should at least try harder and or learn how to fuk a girl right...

Hmmm Contrary to popular belief, not all guys who pay for play are insensitive & callous in their treatment of women. Most are more respectful because there's the understanding that we've both got a role that's clearly defined and ends when time is up. In my nearly three years as a single woman after 20 yrs of marriage, the hobbyists I've experienced are much better lovers than the civvies I've hooked up with in most cases. There's definitely some stand-outs in both categories. *YUM!*

In regard to the topic of anal sex appeal... It's probably true for most that it's the taboo of being "dirty" while others are simply looking for the next big thing sexually after becoming bored w/ the "usual". I've been on both ends: giving & receiving. People vary on the chosen techniques for entry/intercourse, but one thing is always true: Don't rush & make sure the bottom is RELAXED. That shit HURTS when you try to go too fast! :-P (like a kick in the nuts, I'm told)

Anyway, the other commonly used adjectives would be "primal" or "intense". As stated in an earlier post, the only part of human anatomy with more nerve endings in a concentrated area is the clitoris. My most out of control orgasms are during anal "kitty style" while rubbing my clit. It's definitely the wettest orgasms for me, too. hehe

A couple of weeks ago, I did a second scene taping with a 20 yr veteran of the porn industry who's touted as the King of Anal Filth. Now, mind you... I'm a neat freak! NOOOO ickies here! lol I'm blessed w/ very pliable skin, clean innards & actually produce natural lubrication to assist in a smooth cruise of the islands. Fortunately, I snap right back because if I didn't, those cruises would be few & far between. No desire to be a "gaper". ewwww

So, for those of you still on the fence, it's my recommendation that you seek out a lady who truly enjoys anal thus has experience and can teach you properly. Then you can bring others into the fold, ya' see?

Have fun & be safe!
Kat
XOXOX