Married, Divorced or Never-Married

I skew the stats because I am a 3 time loser.

I skew the stats because I am a 3 time loser. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

And you have the money to hobby??? Well done sir!! Well done.

Upon advise of London's lawyers, I refuse to answer the question and invoke my Constitutional right.

This isn't E-Harmony or Match.com. This is different and marital status really should have little to no bearing on how we perceive each other. For me, the nature of this hobby clearly implies a large majority of the guys are married (and looking for something missing when it comes to their sex life).

I love my wife. She's great bcd, great with the kids, and a great friend. I'm just a selfish bastard that enjoys being with a bunch of different women. I've been married 16 years and sincerely hope to never divorce.

I love my wife. She's great bcd, great with the kids, and a great friend. I'm just a selfish bastard that enjoys being with a bunch of different women. I've been married 16 years and sincerely hope to never divorce. Originally Posted by nefarious35

And there you have it. A HUGE percentage of guys who cheat don't do it because of what the wife "is not doing anymore." They simply want something strange. That's what really scares the crap out of me about some men.

I mean to know you could be Jenna Jameson in bed, Betty Crocker in the kitchen, and June Cleaver with the kids, and still have a man who cheats. Why bother...

I mean to know you could be Jenna Jameson in bed, Betty Crocker in the kitchen, and June Cleaver with the kids, and still have a man who cheats. Why bother... Originally Posted by London Rayne

Yeah I read that last night and thought well I sure hope that my hubby isn't like THAT!

I respect his honesty though. Most guys always use the same bs story and blame the wife. At least this guy gives his wife credit.

And there you have it. A HUGE percentage of guys who cheat don't do it because of what the wife "is not doing anymore." They simply want something strange. That's what really scares the crap out of me about some men.

I mean to know you could be Jenna Jameson in bed, Betty Crocker in the kitchen, and June Cleaver with the kids, and still have a man who cheats. Why bother... Originally Posted by London Rayne

It's easy, just don't marry a hunk
or someone used to dating top shelf girls.
If you are the only beauty they have had
you're reasonably safe.

But we sex machines know what
there is and how to get it.

It's easy, just don't marry a hunk
or someone used to dating top shelf girls.
If you are the only beauty they have had
you're reasonably safe.

But we sex machines know what
there is and how to get it. Originally Posted by anaximander

That explains why so many men have hotness delusional syndrome lol. If I have to find an ugly guy just to keep him faithful, forget it! I also disagree that only attractive guys cheat...not from my experience. It's usually the ones who are not all that and insecure, forever trying to prove they still have it. Some show pics of their wives and I am like, "WTF, and you are cheating on HER?" Should be the other way around.

I was 'hot' in my teens.
Every bit a Casanova in my 20's
Still had college girls coming up to
me in my 30's.
Thus far on my 40's I am in better shape
in many ways than I was then.
I can't speak for others.
I am not your average guy by any measure.

You ladies are a convenience.
I can pick up any number I want.
I just can't deal with the strings.
The only strings you got are G.

I run into ex's all the time who estatic
to meet me again seem all let down
when they find out I'm still married.
The body language turnaround
is very obvious.

I respect his honesty though. Most guys always use the same bs story and blame the wife. At least this guy gives his wife credit. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Really, London? She is his wife, lover and friend! Who cares if he is honest with us, when he clearly isn't honest with her.

I really couldn't care less if married guys see providers, that is none of my business, but asking me to respect their honesty, well... that is something different entirely.

Really, London? She is his wife, lover and friend! Who cares if he is honest with us, when he clearly isn't honest with her.

I really couldn't care less if married guys see providers, that is none of my business, but asking me to respect their honesty, well... that is something different entirely. Originally Posted by Biomech

I agree. However, I get where London was coming from. I could careless what anyone's marital situation is here as long as I do my part in being discreet in every sense of the word. I was just saying, I'd hate to be a great wife and all while my hubby is out licking hooker snatch.

I was 'hot' in my teens.
Every bit a Casanova in my 20's
Still had college girls coming up to
me in my 30's.
Thus far on my 40's I am in better shape
in many ways than I was then.
I can't speak for others.
I am not your average guy by any measure.

You ladies are a convenience.
I can pick up any number I want.
I just can't deal with the strings.
The only strings you got are G.

I run into ex's all the time who estatic
to meet me again seem all let down
when they find out I'm still married.
The body language turnaround
is very obvious. Originally Posted by anaximander

Your poetry is getting a bit confusing. Why would how you "think" you look affect how I sleep at night? I couldn't care less lol. I am the provider who sees married men, and only a 10th of them are what I would call attractive...yet they are NOT the ones doing most of the cheating. Most every young, hot guy I have met was always single. Far too many women LIE to men, and their egos show it lol. If I had a dime for every guy who told me, "But every girl before you said I was the best" I would be a millionare. They LIED! I just hit em with the truth.

Biomech, respect is an unclear definition in this case lol. I may not respect what he is doing, but I do respect the fact that he makes no excuses to us for it. I mean really...what hooker wants to hear about how bad your freaking wife is? The last thing I want to do on a date is sit there and listen to a guy bash his wife whilst paying me for sex. It's rather hypocritical.

You mean your actually supposed to talk to a provider. Shit that's why I choose them. I can talk all I want for free on a regular date. The problem with that is I have to listen.

Biomech, respect is an unclear definition in this case lol. I may not respect what he is doing, but I do respect the fact that he makes no excuses to us for it. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I think I know what you meant, but still... being honest, or making no excuses, with a bunch of strangers online, when he is completely anonymous, isn't exactly a big deal in my book. Not sure we should be exactly giving out awards and commendations for that.