Being Too Picky??

Nope, i see them all! I worry more about hygiene. I could care less if your brad pitt or howard stern i like ugly men for some reason?????

I can't imagine turning a client away because I was not attracted to him or thought he was too ugly. As a true professional provider AND someone who cares about other peoples' feelings I would never do this. Looks are completely irrelevant to me as far as business goes. I am way more concerned with hygiene and being treated with respect. There have been a few clients I have refused to see again but it was either to due to hygiene issues or them trying to take advantage of my kindness and not being respectful of my time.

I think over time as you become more mature in the hobby, you realize this is a serious BUSINESS (not your personal dating life) and to look past a person's looks. Professionals cannot (openly) judge their clients by their looks LOL!

Besides there's so Much more to a person than just their looks. Personally I guess I'm very lucky I tend to attract mostly fit muscular hot Sexy guys *drool* BUT I have found that the less attractive guys are the ones with the amazing bedroom skills.

The hot ones tend to be just selfish - huge f'king turn off.

I don't want a dead fish in bed. Being a lover is a 2-way street

Besides there's so Much more to a person than just their looks. Being a lover is a 2-way street Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

But as in your case being gorgeous and ....

.... looking hot in any color is a huge enticement.

Won't you agree?

I think being picky goes to how to well your business is doing. The better you're doing the more selective you can be ijs

Debbie,

I have wanted to see you, but I am overweight and, therefore, do not fit your criteria for clients. I think I am fairly attractive overall, a nice and funny guy, trim my yard, shower, etc. I have a lot of OKs on P411 and have never had a provider turn me down for a 2nd visit. ????????

Linux..you're the only reason I commented..thats f'n hilarious :-D
But quality over quantity with me..I enjoy the few regulars that I have..I keep a regular job so that it won't have to come down to something like this..the clients get to be picky and I think providers should have some type of attraction; dude may be on the chubby/not so attractive side but have a rockin' personality

Last time I checked, this was not E-harmony.

Debbie,

I have wanted to see you, but I am overweight and, therefore, do not fit your criteria for clients. I think I am fairly attractive overall, a nice and funny guy, trim my yard, shower, etc. I have a lot of OKs on P411 and have never had a provider turn me down for a 2nd visit. ???????? Originally Posted by seeker7

I agree. I would have made an attempt to see her but also read about the weight issue. I am a bigger stocky guy. I was a football player and no matter what I do I will never be within the weight requirements that Debbie asks for.
Now I dont even look at her ads because I know her preference. I look at it as her loss. I am always clean, respectful and I tip very well.

It really doesnt matter to me what they look like. Im there to provide a great time and unforgettable experience. Some of the men on here actually are here because they dont get that attention from their own SI. So who the hell cares what they look like...this isnt a popularity contest or high school is it? Lets just all have a good time.

topic is two fold....many stiffs show up to see a woman that has professional fotos hide the real her....and many of us go thru with it. Lil head doing all the thinking but it got them to stay. I think it boils down to being professional like many said. If guy and/or girl are fresh, can hold a conversation somewhat, both can get what they need. Looks is the bonus and clicking to have more encounters, that is profit sharing.

I/J/S

I get that this is meant to be a business. I'm not a seasoned vet or anything, so what do I do if there's truly nothing there for me to work with in either looks or personality? I suck at faking it so I always end up feeling/being awkward about the date. You want DFK and DATY but your furry overbite has your teeth jutting out over your bottom lip?

I try to give hints and be subtle about it, i'm not a rude person, I don't like hurting anyone's feelings..... BUT.... If I suggest "would you like to help yourself to the shower before we start?" Once.... twice... three times... don't catch a attitude because I'm not too enthused about your repugnant rod going anywhere near me... let alone my mouth! Stinky is one thing. I've stopped a session, gotten up to soap up a body cloth and grabbed a towel and bird bath a c*ck my damn self... but it's the audacity that some guys have this mind set that I should be so lucky to be graced by their presence. I'm all for being professional, but it's a lot of work for the pocket change i'm collecting. That's why I spend so much time with guys on the phone first. Cause if you're pleasant, no matter what you look like we can have fun, even if you're stinky. ^__^

I get that this is meant to be a business. I'm not a seasoned vet or anything, so what do I do if there's truly nothing there for me to work with in either looks or personality? I suck at faking it so I always end up feeling/being awkward about the date. You want DFK and DATY but your furry overbite has your teeth jutting out over your bottom lip?

I try to give hints and be subtle about it, i'm not a rude person, I don't like hurting anyone's feelings..... BUT.... If I suggest "would you like to help yourself to the shower before we start?" Once.... twice... three times... don't catch a attitude because I'm not too enthused about your repugnant rod going anywhere near me... let alone my mouth! Stinky is one thing. I've stopped a session, gotten up to soap up a body cloth and grabbed a towel and bird bath a c*ck my damn self... but it's the audacity that some guys have this mind set that I should be so lucky to be graced by their presence. I'm all for being professional, but it's a lot of work for the pocket change i'm collecting. That's why I spend so much time with guys on the phone first. Cause if you're pleasant, no matter what you look like we can have fun, even if you're stinky. ^__^ Originally Posted by Glynette

I feel for you, I have often wondered, not only the providers, but,,,,, the people you see at Wal-Mart..... I have a running joke in my head..... some one is fucking them..... both... female and males that I see.... ( I am no brad pitt, just a middle aged chunky dude, that likes to stay clean)
You providers put up with more shit, in one week, that a sane normal guy could take in 2 years, (IMHO)
You have the right to be picky, change locations, raise your donation, Glynette, just from your picture and this post.... I think you might want to think about this.... or cater to older dudes..... in your 20's pussy is pussy... and they are going to dump on you and show no respect....... no matter your profession you deserve respect for your service offered (particularly if you can not do it your self)

Get in Charge.... make the rules..... they will follow them, if they don't.... they cant ride the ride.....


I have put up with a lot of shit.... but I do not take it out on women......

hope you understood..... I had a mini rant there....

Yes I'd decline. I just turned this guy down this morning because he was utterly dumb after I even explained things to him more than once. It's not a mental or physical thing for me...it's more of common sense stuff for me. If someone doesn't understand common sense stuff then that's where I draw the line.

I expect they see all kinds of guys from true dorks to the deformed.

Speaking of the deformed how bad can it be before you say no. Originally Posted by trey

Are you calling me deformed? Give me some credit, I had to break my neck to get this way. Look at my avatar. I was pimpin' stud! Purrfect would suck it up and see me. Unfortunately, my disability income wont let me see her. Maybe a bday special is in my future.

Jemma, would you turn me down too?