Before I get kicked of Eccie

<---- makes an effort to meet for dinner

good way to ease the tension between us
before BCD

I love such meetings!

I love them when making new friends and I love them when revisiting with old friends. There is so much of life that is meant to shared. Such meetings are an integral part of that. In the new year I want to do more of such things.

Actually wheels69 I remember meeting you at the movies baby!!

Dennisrn always the voice of reason your my hero my sweetheart my sexy guardian provider angel!!!

Vinny your a good business woman these hobbyist well most have no time to meet before play...most of my clientele are doctors, lawyers ect.... Just keep doing what you do its the right way these good men will follow the good sexy no drama woman they can trust!!

Thats why the bad drama gals are jealous of us...

I love dinner and drinks first also, or at least hang out with a drink and conversation for a little while upon arrival. I just love to establish a little rapport first whether it's the first time or catching up with a regular.

I always book multi-hour dates, whether for dinner and drinks or just convo and drinks at the incall. I don't think I could just get to "it" without getting to know a little bit about a woman. I like the meet and greets a lot for that reason too.

Im asking truly

If a provider is willing to chill out and have some drinks or dinner and have a conversation without charge... doesn't that make it better? I mean for both parties?

Everyone is different. But from my experience I have found it helpful and successful. I for one wanna skip the BS and have a Mature Companion I can Really Click with. So I have met many hobbyist old "A*P*" and new and I always love making new friends, but come on, tell me that breaking the ice doesn't help??

Agree with all the above comments.

Some of us would like a dinner (whether we are paying for or cooking it)
A place to meet for drinks and conversation
A gym, movies or other activities (concert, out door activity)
Whatever develops is between the person that is involved

But I feel
1. Parameters are to be set (is this time on or off clock)
2. Both ADULTS should discuss and respect boundaries
3. This is something that really doesn't need to be advertised by a provider, but a Hobbyist should feel free and discuss with a provider of his or her choice (A we are all ADULTS. Should not be online "So And So didn't charge me for the movies )
4. Most IMPORTANT it is the providers CHOICE not the Hobbyist

See the comments It is good to know that women here are not all about the BENJAMIN and even though they are BEAUTIFUL INTELLIGENT and OUR FANTASIES. These women are normal women.Who desire just a nice meal, drinks, and good conversations.

Actually wheels69 I remember meeting you at the movies baby!! Originally Posted by SENSUALCITA

how could I forget

how could I forget Originally Posted by wheels69

For myself, I realized I cannot do the show up and bang appointments. I have to have at least some sort of connection or rapport with you, regardless of how hot you are, for junior to work right. I kinda stopped hobbying for that reason. Maybe I need to try again with the longer "get to know you" sessions. Sounds more my style.

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I always say what I feel. Regardless... sometimes it's bad but at times it's good for me because I don't want anyone who can't handle me and my personality. In this Hobby I'm in Control, this is MY Fantasy, if you don't like it gettttt out! Lets Break the Ice and enjoy our Fantasy Not Have "Much Confusion" Because she isn't NO FUNNN!

As welll yes it is a good way to screen. If you have nothing to hide please enjoy because I check ID's
and YES Ladies ID's! That is when you know a man really wants time with you on the out and about! Some men Will be like NOOO no way. Well Yes way! AGAIN YMMV!!

If you are out having a drink or lunch Screen and screen again!
Thanks for ALLS Reply

Vinny, your Avatar is sexy as hell. Great photo.

Vinny for some reason your spunk always turns me on & im not even gay....

What two consenting adults decide to do is their business..... And no other opinion matters.

I'm still somewhat of a newb...though I have seen vinny once. Meeting up for dinner or drinks with a provider is something I've wanted to do but I've never felt comfortable asking about.

It can be great fun, but...
I did lunch with a gal, and she was being seductive. I had to tell her to back off until after lunch. I said "When we leave, everybody will say 'Did you see the ass on that guy's granddaughter?'
And then 'Yeah - and did you see the boner on granddad??'