Tipping

That is great, but what I would like to know is, how do you know a guy is going to leave a tip on the first session? Can you see in the future so you will be more generous as you say for those guys and the ones you cannot read then while you are good, just not as good? Originally Posted by NearHauteRed

its a progressive process doesn't just happen in 1 day.

Melannie thanks for the kind words. A smile from you is worth more than any tip anyway. Have a great weekend everyone. Originally Posted by pfmtony

lol i think i remember you leaving, did we take another poll to bring you back? lol jk i kid i kid. A little lol

I tip when the service is great.
I just hate it when it's expected, or discussed before or during the session (tacky)

Unlike restaurants, the provider's service is baked into the price. The provider charges what she believes she is worth;if her price point is a fair one, then she does well;if not, she won't. Year end bonus? No. Same reasoning. Gifts etc? Of course, we all like to be remembered.

Easylover214.. you are by far, hands down, the sweetest man! Just wanted to get that out there. I believe tipping is one's own decision..It is one way of showing appreciation and can be extra helpful for those of us who are raising a family and have mortgages,ect.,but does not mean one should feel bad if doesn't or feel any less of a client because they dont. Personally I will walk away with a bigger smile and satisfaction from someone who has same compassion as easylover214 and pfmtony,extra caring and supportive towards our lifestyle, but doesn't tip, VS one who tips just to show a big ego and feels superior to us. I am naturally a pleaser and submissive type so easy for me to look past a lot. Although IMO, I treat the online marketing,screening,and booking as a business, that is why I am able to relax and put all business aside when meeting BCD. It is all about passion and having a good time! Of course all of us ladies would say yes tip please.. but most of us will agree that after several years of experience we have accepted it is NOT a get rich quick industry..lol.We simply do it because we enjoy it and has it's benefits. If you feel like tipping please do, if not, no big deal We still will enjoy each others company just the same!

Easylover214 although I know you mean well with the topic of tipping.. I don't believe there will be a right answer to your question. There are too many personalities..lol.Some get it and some will not. All in all thank you for thinking of us though!!! Originally Posted by melannie_star

Awe shucks. Thank you - sweetness like that is EXACTLY why I find tipping to be important. See so many people on here that just don't get it that there's more to this than just sex. TCB = tips and repeat business. You and my other ATF take this to a whole different level.

lol i think i remember you leaving, did we take another poll to bring you back? Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

No. In fact by a 3 to 1 margin WE voted for him to leave, in a campaign of his own manufacture, where he promised never to darken the ECCIE doorway again if he lost. Watching the PrettyFuckingMarvelous ego mega fail play out in public with only the header showing? Priceless!