Well I am a younger lady (mature would be personality for me in this case aye) who quite enjoys taking her time.
Find a lady who has no problem with multiples (if that is a worry you won't get another shot after the first on a longer date), don't ever be afraid to share your issues about your condition of PE with the lady you're seeing. If she's worth her salt she'll understand and work with you by being extra slow/extra patient/caring with the foreplay and how she performs. Lots of luck .