Married or engaged providers ruin my fantasy(so do one's with boyfriends)

If she wants to be more than a provider to u then u GL but i doubt it. Imean look at the circumstances of how u met?lol

But enjoy this vid whilst u ponder my post

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JewKH5ugU6s

I too avoid providers who are in a relationship!

First, and foremost, if her SO doesn't know what she's doing the consequences, if he catches you together, can be life threatening! I had this very thing happen with a stripper I was banging!

Second, I like eating pussy and damn sure don't want some fuckers giz there!

Third, she's obviously bare backing him, while he's probably bare backing other girls on the side, which brings up a toxic soup of possible infections! Originally Posted by Optimator

How exactly do you KNOW if they are in a relationship? Do they pinky swear?

Second, you eat out providers don't you? You could be Gent #5 of the day. True, she cleans up (hopefully) but she can clean up after her SO too. Do you guys REALLY believe these ladies aren't f-cking bareback in their personal lives???? Whether it be a husband or a "boyfriend" or whatever, rest assured, they are f-cking bareback. MAYBE there are one or two that don't (doubtful), but I assume all of them do and I act accordingly.

The way guys have such specific "moral" criteria for f-cking prostitutes amazes me. There was one guy I saw on here that won't have sex with a woman if she has ever been with a black guy!!! LOL!!! Good luck on that one, buddy. And now, these guys won't sleep with a married or "in a relationship" provider. Another guy on here hates that married guys cheat, but has an old lady who bangs married guys for a living! It's fascinating stuff, really.

Dude, what if she's doing this because hubby can't find a job? Or worse, is able bodied, and doesn't want to work, or is out to sea, in the air, or on the road? At least help her buy clothes, pay the bills, and feed the kids.

@ Al I have the belief that,if you dont have intamacy perhaps jusy perhaps you can turn one onto your side.I did it before I hope to do it again

@ugotme thats what Im afraid of

It's not complicated. It's a business transaction. You aren't getting any at home or can't get laid for some reason and the provider is renting out her p-ssy to fill that need. All of the other bullsh-t is irrelevant.

Supply and demand.

You want a real relationship, look elsewhere. End of story.

Maybe there are other reasons for rings.... I wear my mother's ring who passed a few years ago and who had the best amazing fairy tale marriage with my father in which I hope to have one day. So maybe you shouldn't jump to conclusions. Then again if you are hoping for a relationship. ... well I'm sorry but while myself and some others absolutely LOVE this some are literally waiting on you to just hurry up...

@ Al I have the belief that,if you dont have intamacy perhaps jusy perhaps you can turn one onto your side.I did it before I hope to do it again Originally Posted by kusmaldo

But WHY????

Why are you trying to "turn" hookers???

Try a "civilian" woman. There are no guarantees of course, but your odds would be better than getting a "provider" to fall for you.

Hell I've even used it as an excuse for crazy stalker guys to leave me alone...

If that's your thinking your in the wrong place.

People, read this "guy"'s posts. Go back and read his "dime piece" posts. Look at how he responds to ANY posts in threads he starts. He is playing you all. No real person would be here and act this way--if he was as love-fixated as he comes across in one post, then he would take people's replies at least somewhat seriously. But no, he posts this absurd commentary and then laughs in your face when you take his post seriously.

The dime piece: he was a modern Portuguese Don Qixote declaring his love for the beautiful Dulcinea. Now he is the guy who wants to pretend that married/engaged/boy-friended ladies "ruin his fantasy". Really? The only realistic "solution" for such a person in this corner of the world would be to find a nun moonlighting as an escort.

Admit it--he is creative, he has developed an alter ego that--while not believable--does draw you into the absurdity of his situation. Humor him if you wish--the whole conversation is entertaining at times--but realize this is all play acting. The more he thinks you are taking him seriously, the more incredulous his next post/comment. He is trying to see how far he can go and still get some sympathetic sole to believe him.

Play along if you wish, but understand that you should be laughing at him as you reply. He is most assuredly laughing at you.

Judging by your posts here YOU, sir, do not know how to differentiate between a PERSON and a possession. Relationships are defined by the people in them. If you don't agree with how another couple conducts their life, fine... Don't conduct YOUR life that way. But seriously, to come HERE and pass that kind of judgment? Really? Do you realize how hypocritical you are acting right now? The fact that you are here to begin with certainly negates your claim of being 'innocent'... But I can absolutely see why you are single... Originally Posted by VegasJen

Why would it matter? WE are not looking for a relationship here. This is not a dating site... I (as an example) certainly care about my clients and I go to great lengths to establish a connection before we ever even meet. But that connection is not binding... Ever... This whole game we play here is for FUN... And from the provider's side it is also profit. Its a job and just like any job, at the end of the day we return to a private life that is separate. And that is ok... Originally Posted by VegasJen

I'm not sure why it matters to you? Like Danielle mentioned some providers are in open relationships and this is just a job after all.

Maybe you should look to dating sites if you want monogamy ? Originally Posted by allegraw

My post was totally ignored by the original poster and he only chose to respond with info not pertinent at all to the situation.

Providers will just see this and know you will have a tendency to get overly attached and stalkerish. People are simply trying to offer perspective...and when you receive a different opinion on the topic not similar to your......you post flammatory messages back. Your a troll.

Again it comes down to money. If what you are paying doesn't amount anywhere to there monthly expenditures, you little drop in the bucket via your occasional meet won't mean shit. So you can't dictate shit. What you want is control, but you can't afford it. Originally Posted by gimme_that

@al so says the man with Al bundy on his profile pic

@AddisonGreat analogy,perhaps its you I should take out to dinner and woo and convince to get hitched

@Al you know you have a point

@addison that works. My bf is steven segall