How many does this REALLY offend?

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Originally Posted by Darcy Darling
Bet nobody steals this pic to post in their bp ads
I do!! Find it offensive.
I dont care how you choose to spin the word, i still find it offensive.
I know YOU arent racist, and are very open minded about a lot of things. However, its still unacceptable, to me.
I find some of the other words used to describe the ladies, as offensive and unacceptable as well.
Do i use some or all of the aforementioned words, yup.
(Call me a hypocrite so be it. I know im no angel. And, I know im not the only one that has done something wrong, and did it again. )

However, theres a time and a place for it all. Or maybe theres never a time when such words should used.

I think the post you made (Darcy) is such a big deal bc its obviously a "race" issue. (Theres plenty of other forbidden and sensitive topics.) I think some of the other memes in this thread, are totally unacceptable also.
Did i laugh? Maybe.
Did i shake my head? Maybe.
Roll my eyes? Its possible.
Just bc i may have had a "human" reaction, and experienced more than 1 emotion, it doesnt make it right or wrong.

But, yes, to answer your question, i find it offensive.
Im only speaking up, bc you asked.
Does it change any way i feel about you, HELL NO!!!
Youre still my boo.
IMO I didn't have a problem with the first post. Is this the place for that word? No, its not. I figured its something u use amongst your friends and not meant in a derogatory way....but the last two memes u posted just seem very tacky and are making it look as if maybe u do have an issue with the way u view other races?

Like" hey Im not racist but here are some pics of black people in unsavory and unflattering moments"

And no not everyone uses that word or hears it on a daily basis.

Nearly my entire family is AA from my step grandpa to my dads sisters and all of my cousins they don't use the word and neither do I.
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It's all pink in the middle right?
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  • savak
  • 11-04-2014, 07:47 PM
theres a time and a place to use the term darce.....



and thats when youre alone in your car listening to kj97 or at home watching pbs.
Attachment 364787 Originally Posted by Whispers
Indeed! Every time I read what you post! Im not here everyday like you are! Just every now and then when I can sneak on here

LOL
Im officially embarrassed for you Darcy.

Like" hey Im not racist but here are some pics of black people in unsavory and unflattering moments"
Originally Posted by NikkiWhite
Ummm ok, but irrelevant. It was an honest question! And people's opinions of me on this site do NOT MATTER! I'm just here to watch and participate in this online train wreck for fun!

As for the pics I posted, I posted blacks and latinos alike. And I am not white, for the record so.... ya know? Here is a different race, just so you are not offended and think I pick on blacks...

I do!! Find it offensive.
I dont care how you choose to spin the word, i still find it offensive.
I know YOU arent racist, and are very open minded about a lot of things. However, its still unacceptable, to me.
I find some of the other words used to describe the ladies, as offensive and unacceptable as well.
Do i use some or all of the aforementioned words, yup.
(Call me a hypocrite so be it. I know im no angel. And, I know im not the only one that has done something wrong, and did it again. )

However, theres a time and a place for it all. Or maybe theres never a time when such words should used.

I think the post you made (Darcy) is such a big deal bc its obviously a "race" issue. (Theres plenty of other forbidden and sensitive topics.) I think some of the other memes in this thread, are totally unacceptable also.
Did i laugh? Maybe.
Did i shake my head? Maybe.
Roll my eyes? Its possible.
Just bc i may have had a "human" reaction, and experienced more than 1 emotion, it doesnt make it right or wrong.

But, yes, to answer your question, i find it offensive.
Im only speaking up, bc you asked.
Does it change any way i feel about you, HELL NO!!!
Youre still my boo. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti
A good and thorough post. I <3 it. Although, I am a lil surprised! lol ( I have never heard you say it though, but anyway)I definitely knew the would chime in.
Anyway, since there wasn't a huge public outcry about this, Im going to go ahead and guess it's not THAT big of a deal to most. So before I turn into Whispers, I guess that's all I have to say about that! You may do what you want with this thread mods! Keep it, close it, whateva!

Un besito pa todos los haters
No closing it. You wrote it, you own it
Lol yea Darcy... my opinion on a lot of topics, one may find surprising.
I try not to get too serious "here" bc im not here for that. Im here to get my kitti, mouth, and wallet, stuffed
But like i said... i only chimed in, bc you asked.
And i think ppl enjoy hearing what i have to say.
Ok...maybe i just enjoy hearing myself :P
Call a white person a Edit by VS or a Mexican a Edit by VS and watch how fast either the police get called or a fight happens it's the funniest thing in the world to me that the white folks who say Edit by VS would never say it to a Edit by VS keep that shit in your house white folks
Jo.... lets keep it civil. Can we?
We got your point.... but the language, really?
How many does this Really offend?
All 11 millions slaves brought over from Africa and their offspring

On more than 1 level I am offended really
1. If you cannot go up too a random group of another race and use that word it is offensive. You might get away with it because times have changed.

At the same time I remember walking into the Mcdonalds downtown on Commerce and a group of mexican boys were calling each other the "N" word. At that point I was confused because they were not black but calling each other a derogatory "black" names. I was mad because they were using the word in public...In front of many black people walking past...and they were oblivious to people they offended like myself. I know inside I was upset but I can't be mad at they're ignorance.

2.Now if this was me asking the board do you really gets offended when I say (fill in with your own derogatory word) I would have gotten all kinds of hell.
Apparently all I do is offend (same 5) people this section. Being that I have extremely tough skin I realize this co-ed section is mucho problems I will limit my responses because engaging in every reply you tend together worked up. I like to be chill and relax when I meet with someone and not discussing this bias ass co-ed section.
jomoski, Really? Don't ad to the ignorance that began this thread. Read the guidelines of what is allowed and not allowed to be posted.