If you all care so much..... Why are the Johns training the new Whores?

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Aww MAN!!!

I keep waiting for the opportunity to congratulate you on a sick burn but unfortunately you keep insisting on the same antediluvian prosaic statements you always resort to that we've all been hearing for a long time now.

Shucks and darn. Maybe someday I'll learn that one can never expect the extraordinary from the common. Le sigh...
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I really don't care how y'all run your business.... Just do it out of public view and you won't hear shit from me or others....

But when ya bash each other for shit they should have known when it is not getting to them in any other fashion ya just look so damn petty......

And if ya insist on misquoting me you will shortly see CoEd fill with threads where I clarify and make a topic out of for all to enjoy....

Sheesh..... Hey SL.... Didn't you have a plan to deal with all these old and fat ones? Originally Posted by Whispers
I learned "we" don't want to piss them off. They get nasty real quick. Lets remember being "old" and "fat" is one thing but BAT SHIT CRAZY is another! IJS

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Hey, can somebody make a suggestion for the best brand of Baloney?
Ah, and the bread, shoud it be white, wheat, or sourdough?
I feel like making some sammiches. Originally Posted by FoulRon
Geeez where is Toyz when you need him
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Looks like my ex evaluating an offer to go to hell!

Now where on earth have I heard the rhetoric of open threats of harassment, and statements that women should run their business "out of public view" (Misquote? You show me where you've been sooo misquoted and misunderstood.) stay in their own little assigned room, and talk amongst ourselves???...

Oh. That's right.
I knew this bronze age shit sounded familiar.




From what I understand, it takes certain lack of sensibility, a vacant, adrift look around the eyes, some form of synthetic numbing, the cutting of sidewalls in houses, and a complicated contraption of pulleys and levers to make your intimate acquaintance. Just goes to show there's a Jill for every Jack in this tawdry little world. Lucky for all of us. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
Here you go Miss V
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Aww MAN!!!

I keep waiting for the opportunity to congratulate you on a sick burn but unfortunately you keep insisting on the same antediluvian prosaic statements you always resort to that we've all been hearing for a long time now.

Shucks and darn. Maybe someday I'll learn that one can never expect the extraordinary from the common. Le sigh... Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
I think I had that when I was 23. Doc put me on antibiotics to get rid of it!

Aww MAN!!!

I keep waiting for the opportunity to congratulate you on a sick burn but unfortunately you keep insisting on the same antediluvian prosaic statements you always resort to that we've all been hearing for a long time now.

Shucks and darn. Maybe someday I'll learn that one can never expect the extraordinary from the common. Le sigh... Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
I couldn't agree more.
I am old.
I am fat.

It is not a label.

There are other old and fat ones here....


In case you haven't noticed MOST of the attitude and tell us how we are wrong threads and posts from ladies come from the "old and fat" ones...

The young and thin seldom have the time to interact... Most of them are earning and spending and earning some more... Originally Posted by Whispers
Originally posted by WhispersI am old.
I am fat.

It is not a label.

There are other old and fat ones here....
In case you haven't noticed MOST of the attitude and tell us how we are wrong threads and posts from ladies come from the "old and fat" ones...
This angers me because I am the only fat and old one here who is qualified to tell people they are wrong.

But when I say a lady is fat and old this is how I refer to women who are confident, over the age 40 and comfortable speaking for themselves.
Rather than face my own inadequacies as a man and my fear of mature, sexually confident, women,(scary!!) I dismiss their comments, ideas, and feelings as only a fat, old, card-carrying misogynist can.

The young and thin seldom have the time to interact... Most of them are earning then spending my money and earning some more. Hopefully they aren't eating because I like them thin - not fat. Speaking of earning and spending - you would think I was made of money, wouldn't you? Seems I have all this free time to hang out here - who needs a real life, huh? Here? I am KING!

As I was blathering on about, I like my girls young and tiny. So what? They are non-threatening and they think that I am smart. I can talk and talk and talk and talk and they sit quietly for hours - eyes vacant, hanging on my every intellectual thought...

Young girls make me feel smart and wanted and don't have an attitude, like those scary self-assured, smart, older women, who just won't shut up.
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Bitter huh?

I've enjoyed dialogue with many mature as well as fat women on a variety of subjects....Why don't you tell us what this is really all about?
I've been expecting for a while for you to start up with me and I understand why......

LOL! Why is it that when a man does not find an older woman attractive or sexually appealing he is labeled a misogynist or afraid of older women? This hobby is about men that want and can afford to indulge themselves doing so in the manner that appeals to them... Why do you take issue with the fact that for me it means ladies 18 to 25?

As you advance in years don't be jealous of the young ones enjoying the life you already lived.... That's what memories are for..... Sit back, relax, close your eyes and remember....

I do it at times.... I find that as I get older I need to begin to adapt and adjust to my age becoming a factor for women...... So this year I plan on exploring the realm of older, middle aged women....I'm working on expanding into women between 26 and 35... Building a bucket list to work through......

I know it has to be disappointing at your age to lack a real connection, looking around at people you know and realizing that you lack the youth to land a guy your age or older and lacking the finances to play the cougar game..... It has to suck....

So keep sucking..... I'm not sure what else I can tell you.


In the meantime... There was a subject to this thread... a suggestion that ladies reach out and pass information on to new ladies........

If you don't want to participate, bash me in another thread.... Thread hijacking COULD cost you a few points here and there and then BOOM..... ya get a 90 day vacation......
First, this is a profession, not a half way house. AAAAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH! TFF! Second, women get on the infoshare, powder room, other screening tools and answer questions all the time. True.

There is also copious information out there on the internet via several escort blogs that off viable information. That's what I used when I first started because I knew no one and also didn't know ofthese sites. Both providers and hobbyists should read and get familiar before they dive in. They were very helpful. Men like to see new women for the same d reason they always have, which is by the way the very reason this exists in the first place. Novelty. Why must you assume that women new to the business was is victimization? You sem to have this very misguided notion that posting in the welcome wagon is "help". Most women never check that thread; I don't. I'm not looking for fresh meat.

I check the infoshare regularly; and the other ladies area as well a few other discussion forums. When someone asks a question to which I can be of assistance, I answer. As do most of the active ladies on these boards. True.

. Originally Posted by chelseabean
In other words we do the best we can but we don't owe anyone anything. I figure if someone wants help they will ask. I'm not a mind reader and I'm not a pity party planner.

Game is to be sold not told SO TRUE.

Sorry it may seem cold but I don't give a crap about other girls knowing how to run their business. I have a child I'm here to provide for and when im not doing that im spending time with her not pimpn on green hookers for free.

I can offer a little advice here and there when asked directly but I have no time or interest in being involved in anyone's business. +1 Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I liked it better around here when it was the Toyz show. At least when I read his posts, Originally Posted by Claire She Blows
*Deep sigh* Claire, do you know you are amungst a small # here. Most of Toyz's threads are entertainment and often get overlooked these days.

Haters gone hate in 3....2.....1:

Honestly I prefer whispers' topics. Even though I don't agree with everything he says, he definitely has some great insight and is quite dutiful when steering the community back from oblivion. You can't deny, even though he receives much outspoken opposition, he most likely has just as many if not more, silent supporter.
5,000+ views on a coed thread? IJS


Didn't you have a plan to deal with all these old and fat ones? Originally Posted by Whispers
Just let us eat cake, OKAY! GOSH! Cup , cakes that is.

I used to send pms to the new girls reaching out to offer help/advice but after 1 to many why do you care..I don't need your help responses (guessing pimps don't like ladies helping their stock) I stopped...

I may be the odd ball out here but I never have and never would see the other ladies as competition ... I'm not wired that way....plenty of guys to go around Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn
I have actually had a couple of civi friends ask me to help them come into the hobby.
Even though I had years of experience, they too found salvation under the coattails of a hobbyist. They will never admit that was a poor choice, but they know they should have just kept it professional with them and heeded my advice. It's a common theme amongst women who are missing guidence from a male figure. Im not saying that's a bad thing, its just my observation.




But keep grasping.... maybe you will win over some old timer to be a regular.... Gals that speak up in opposition to my ideas tend to be popular with a certain set of the community here.... Gals that agree with something I say tend to get harassed and dumped by those same few..... Maybe you will get a regular out of it!
Originally Posted by Whispers

On the contrary, I think I got a regular this week, who actually agrees with you!!!!

He's an old timer too.

As far as hobbyists who wont see a girl who has views opposite him can suck it. Like VL said. There are plenty of clients to go around.


I'm usually quiet when my pockets are hurting. Since I never shut up...... you already know what it is.

A few times a year I get a client who wants to go to the booty club.
We make it rain on them hos. How's that for being helpful?
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A few times a year I get a client who wants to go to the booty club. We make it rain on them hos. How's that for being helpful? Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin
If they are my ho's it works quite well!
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Dang EJL!!!

From what I understand applying one's lips to the nether fundament nestled in the gentleman's hirsute derriere is something akin to sucking peanut butter out of a shag carpet. But I am absolutely marveling at your skills in that regard. I stand in awe and congratulate you good madam.

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This is fucking awesome!

Whispers, stop hijacking your own threAd.

"Whispers, I hold in my hand, two cards. Choose one."

"You're old and fat".

Fucking AWESOMESAUSAGE-ON-A-STICK, in a 'WTF', out-of-fucking-nowhere, sort of way.

Pure ridicularity at its finest.

LMMFBO!!!

Carry on.

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New ladies register every day on ECCIE and there is a rush every day for guys to be first..... Many want the review discount... Many want a chance to "help her and teach her" which is basically a game plan for being her hero and getting some favors in return....

Shouldn't you ladies be taking care of your own?

I know... I know.... In a lot of cases they are younger and prettier as well as newer..... but set aside the fear of competition if you all really give a shit about each other.....

Come together and draft Welcome Message with information on screening, where to work, where not to work, who the current ones to avoid are etc...... Set up a panel and take turns volunteering and monitor the welcome wagon and new registrations and make a point of zapping it off to every new gal as they pop in.....

Include contact information for a few "Mother Hens" and look out for each other.....

Reading the alert threads as well as boards it seems pretty apparent that most new girls are learning in more of a trial by fire process.....

Some of you beat them up pretty good AFTER the fact for not knowing better.....

You could do more to look after each other by being proactive.... Originally Posted by Whispers
In an effort to stay on topic - because I just love posting under the threat of yet another vacation, and as if I don't know exactly who was the almighty powerful one behind the curtain - I'll be a good girl and say this:

Every single time I've offered to help a new girl, sent her my number, told her is she needs anything, she can ask, I've gotten a "great, thanks" and never heard from her again. Every. Single. Time.

I would love to help new girls learn this business, learn how to screen effectively, how to have great TCB, how to keep a nice incall, etc. Maybe I should post an ad on BP for exactly that and see how many pimps try to take me out.
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Never mine ....self edit
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In an effort to stay on topic - because I just love posting under the threat of yet another vacation, and as if I don't know exactly who was the almighty powerful one behind the curtain

LMAO! You should speak up! It's amazing that those of you that have a problem making a point believe the Mods are puppets...

- I'll be a good girl and say this:

Every single time I've offered to help a new girl, sent her my number, told her is she needs anything, she can ask, I've gotten a "great, thanks" and never heard from her again. Every. Single. Time.

You are not the first to make this point and honestly it is something that I had not considered. I can understand the unwillingness after trying several times to keep trying.

I would love to help new girls learn this business, learn how to screen effectively, how to have great TCB, how to keep a nice incall, etc. Maybe I should post an ad on BP for exactly that and see how many pimps try to take me out. Originally Posted by Claire She Blows
I still believe though that a well crafted post that draws attention to the ladies only forums, how to screen if they choose to, how they may get "worked" as a newbie and how to report a problem that is presented purely in an informative and neutral manner "might" help a few.....