Outcall to a married man while the wife is away

My wife doesnt leave longer enough for this to even be possible. You know cooking and cleaning and all that stuff a wife is suppose to do while we pay for that roof and clothing on their back.

if its an apartment then i would its ok and remember that the client must be more worried than u so i believe he has done this before

I have a request to visit a client while his wife is away at his home. It will be a first for me since I have always worried about the wife coming home early and my life would be in danger.

Any advice or stories? I need to make a decision and just not sure I should do it. Originally Posted by ScarlettKnight

I wouldn't do it... that's how women end up well you know where

You are "not sure" you "should do it"?

Coach Royal used to say:

"Three things can happen when you throw a forward pass.Two are bad." Originally Posted by LexusLover

Coach Royal may have said it too but I think Woody Hayes is known for saying it.

As a hobbyist, I'd be wary of calling a provider to my home. A strange car in the driveway cha ring bells up and down the street in a suburban setting.

I would never do a man's wife in his home. Years ago a married NJ woman I had met in internet chat circa 1997 was my willing mistress anytime I went up to the corp HQ in Jersey for quarterly meetings. It was amazing the sexual energy this woman (Danish extraction) had. There was no cost to me and she wanted it every day I was there (even more than once like a morning session then an afternoon one). Another time circa 2004 a stripper from Ricks South offered me sex for $100 at her place. On the way from the club she said her BF also lived there but was away so nothing to worry about. We went to PI instead no way I was gonna do her there.

Once she wanted me come out and c her house (they were very well off) which was very elegant (Tony Sopranos house reminded me of it). I actually had the gall to go there (I used the analogy of a Mars mission where you traveled a little bit further in an eva to see a canyon) and see it (cruiosity) and when we went into their bedroom she wanted sex on their bed. I declined (even though she assured he was at work an hour away) and we went out to lunch instead. The idea of doing her in front of their wedding and family pictures simply just spooked me out and was too much. Look I was in a faraway place already looking for trouble when I was doing her every day from my hotel room.

Later that nite I had a dream where I was at a gathering in a hotel ballroom of sorts with around 30-40 attendees where a young blonde Canadian couple was introduced as my new spirit guides (I had read a lot of new age stuff around that time) like someone transferring in to replace another manager (this was more implied than something said and someone excitedly said "so wonderful they were available") but it seemed to be an important event where I was sort of a VIP guest in attendance. Later as he was visiting with the audience I tried initiating some conversation with him but he was not very talkative, like a thoughtful silent guy. He did made a comment, like some savant who had an advanced knowledge - "its a bad idea and its not right." Some heads turned and I could hear someone familiar (Earl a guy I used to work with but did not make sense bc he was deceased) mutter "you better listen to him pardner." Earl was my partner in lunch time domino games (also mentor for job) with coworkers at lunch when I worked at that place.

The relationship with the NJ gal ended in 2001 when I made the choice not to fly up there in a show storm canceling a trip which had been planned. She was quite upset. My job with the company ended awhile after and I found a new target: Strip Clubs here in Houston.

My advice to op would be do not do them in their spouses home - it is a bad idea and not right (over the years I have related his comment to the NJ gal but would be applicable to hobbying carelessly without giveing much thought). I would never do a girl in my house if wife or say a GF was living there. I guess different people are turned on by different things. Doing someone in their spouses house is certainly risky but your probably going to have the smell of their s/o in that room - really do that?

Coach Royal may have said it too but I think Woody Hayes is known for saying it. Originally Posted by strongbad

DKR said that and it can be applied to hobbying: Good thing = sex. 2 bad things = financial ruin from sex addiction and some really bad risks (STD's in age of AIDS and provider pregnancy which could mean child support). If you have a small voice telling you your spending too much or something does not feel right about that gal from Seeking Arrangement, take a time out and have a burger / beer somewhere nice alone and ask yourself "is this really worth it?."

One month I had spent $3000 on strip clubbing / sessions with girls. I took a time out and wondered "what was I thinking, my gosh that would buy x gold coins or make a nice IRA deposit." From then on I established a monthy budget of $500 a month (about 3 sessions with one I had chosen as SB) and when pressed for meetings would say "out of town" or "cant meet lack of funds" or "can't get away - family stuff." Beware of the gal who wants to go to 2x week dropping the price of the second session by 33-50%. Run...your financial future could be in danger! She is not your GF and does not love you but out to drain you of your last nickel.