I'm old enough to be a grandpa for many of the younger providers. I often choose a provider based on reviews indicating a good GFE. I can't say that I've had a great GFE. A question for the ladies, am I expecting too much? Should I be looking for older providers? Originally Posted by timetolive
I am not exaggerating when I say that almost everyone comments (especially 60+) on how nice it is to be able hold a conversation with someone who is educated, speaks well, is up on current events and politics, understands business, gets their old-timey pop culture references, etc. Originally Posted by Gabriella Vega1) You should believe this about as much as we should believe you all when you comment about how handsome we are and how big our johnsons are
I'm old enough to be a grandpa for many of the younger providers. I often choose a provider based on reviews indicating a good GFE. I can't say that I've had a great GFE. A question for the ladies, am I expecting too much? Should I be looking for older providers? Originally Posted by timetoliveSeems like something I could bring. I try to be bang buddies, like friends who get together and bang it out and cuddle and laugh and go home till next time. I see younger guys who have milf fantasies and lately naughty step mom and step son has been on a rise, and it's pretty fucking hot too. But I actually have conversation with older gents. They know quite a bit about me and I ask about them and enjoy each other's company.
I'm an old cooter tooter, myself. I prefer taking the leisurely approach to lusty luvin' that more mature men appear to appreciate, and I'm just not up to the carnal calisthenics of the Olympian young fellows with their triathlon list of activities squeezed into 60 slim minutes anymore. (Gold medal to Lexie for her enthusiastic brunch hosting!) Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I mostly agree with this, some of my best sessions have been with ladies of similar age to me.
People of similar ages are usually in better tune psychologically and socially......... Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I never really understood this leisurely approach with the older 45 plus providers. Are you saying the older providers are the less chance they can accommodate those Olympic styled sessions. Is sex in the ”ate fourties more boring mundane and least inspired? No wonder the guy chooses to see younger ladies. I doubt I would want boring sex no matter the age.
In my civilian dating the ladies I was moreso interested in had strong sexual appetite and youthful enthusiasm and technique toward the younger guys. I'm in my thirties at my sexual peak, and sometimes ladies post menopausal have just as much drive and stamina to match the younger guys. They take good care of themselves and their health because they have to. In the hobby for me it's not so much frequent. But sometimes fulfilling the Milf fantasy can be sexy.
I mostly agree with this, some of my best sessions have been with ladies of similar age to me. Originally Posted by gimme_that
I never really understood this leisurely approach with the older 45 plus providers. Are you saying the older providers are the less chance they can accommodate those Olympic styled sessions. Is sex in the ”ate fourties more boring mundane and least inspired? No wonder the guy chooses to see younger ladies. I doubt I would want boring sex no matter the age.
In my civilian dating the ladies I was moreso interested in had strong sexual appetite and youthful enthusiasm and technique toward the younger guys. I'm in my thirties at my sexual peak, and sometimes ladies post menopausal have just as much drive and stamina to match the younger guys. They take good care of themselves and their health because they have to. In the hobby for me it's not so much frequent. But sometimes fulfilling the Milf fantasy can be sexy. Originally Posted by gimme_that
Many of these Providers advertising that they're in their "20's", aren't Even in Their "20's". They're in their 30's. Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXOThis is so true, the other day I was reading up on a provider I was interested in seeing. I noticed by the age she has posted on her profile, she's only aged 2 years over the past 6 years since she's joined. AND she's still sexy as HELL!!
This is so true, the other day I was reading up on a provider I was interested in seeing. I noticed by the age she has posted on her profile, she's only aged 2 years over the past 6 years since she's joined. AND she's still sexy as HELL!!Well, that's not too bad considering there's whores whom been whoring since I was in diapers, reaching 50, claiming to be in their "30's" I guess their hooker logic makes them think that their high school mentality makes up for their prune looking wrinkly faces....
Originally Posted by jojodancer15
I like a more unstructured, un-rushed interlude based on individual chemistry, which may entail pillow talk and even shared laughter, perhaps a drink and a snack to refresh, mutual showering prior to or following intimate intensity, lots of affectionate kissing, caressing, foreplay, afterplay, quality over quantity of "pops." That spells GFE for me and my gentlemen friends alone, not for the rest of the Hobby world.......So you like more quality control over the type of session you offer basically; moreso less chameleon. All that stuff you spoke of would take a lot of time to do in a mere hour session leaving the guy with basically a shorter sexual interlude and finish. I understand that. But I also see that trend with ladies in they fourties and up usually. If you give any indication that stamina, prolonged sex, or multiple positions etc are stuff you seek they shy away from a meet fast. I'm getting older myself and that trend is sort demotivating knowing the type of experience I seek is more geared toward the younger folk in the hobby.
It is a myth often held by younger lovers that sex must be physically taxing and a test of stamina to be exciting and fulfilling. Nope. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I can do a hot wild sheet romping session,but it is really all about the mood i am in at the moment!! I think age is only a number and alot of us "old feisty chicks" can run circles around these young kities...right Fancy?? lol[/B] Originally Posted by DallasRainMood was never a reason younger ladys 33 and below gave me as to a reason she didn't have sexual stamina to accommodate multihours. They either can, cant, or they don't want to usually. There isn't an in between I've seen.