I'm the dominant one except maybe if I'm feeling lazy and want to lie back like a slug and get a great hummer or let her ride me. 
Otherwise, I like to be in charge and I usually like it a little rough. I dated a gal who had a penchant for domination but she never tried to talk me into participating as she knew that was not me. But, she would tell me these stories of this freak group she was in at one time where all these guys wanted to be kicked in the balls, burned with cigarettes, fucked in the ass with dildos, pissed on, led around on a leash like a dog and all kinds submissive shit that quite frankly disgusted me. Yeah, I know WALDT and different strokes for different folks and all that, but I don't get how you could allow yourself to be treated like that and still call yourself a man.
Originally Posted by Super Sonic
I agree, there's women here that treat men like this by taking control of the guys time, a min of mouth action, rush to suit up and horrible quick service after that, mostly HJ's finishes.
I like to take control of my fun time here, the other way around reminds me of a butch telling her girl what's next. Total mood killer