Would You Date A Hobbyist/Provider?

Malaya...thank you opening up about your feelings about you....you can think your friend helping you from another post that she wrote on the board about another post on welfare and wrote something about a girl and i think is about you.

fyi if you like someone in the hobby dont be open about your feelings
just in case doen't work out.

Malaya...thank you opening up about your feelings about you....you can think your friend helping you from another post that she wrote on the board about another post on welfare and wrote something about a girl and i think is about you.

fyi if you like someone in the hobby dont be open about your feelings
just in case doen't work out. Originally Posted by foxyred73

I honestly have no idea what other girl and welfare post you are talking about. As far as I know noone has been talking about me and welfare. I am not on welfare.

And I do not have emotional feelings just sexual. And he already knows. It's not like we are dating. Just FYI.

And to be honest I do not appreciate you assuming things. You incorrectly assumed that I was in a relationship with a hobbyist and when I said I wasn't you stated that you saw things I did not. And I am offended that you see a welfare post and you automatically assume it's about me. So please keep the assumptions to yourself unless they are based on cold hard facts. Thank you, sweetie.

I must of missed something didnt read anything about welfare... oh well just wanna say good luck to u sexxy girl.. muah

I must of missed something didnt read anything about welfare... oh well just wanna say good luck to u sexxy girl.. muah Originally Posted by mirandalee

I honestly have no idea what she's talking about either. I did state earlier that I would not allow a man to force me to take a minimum wage job and get on welfare.

And good luck to you! Muah!

Nice to see that someone else is feeling the same as me about this topic lol..

Im soooooooo looking forward to seeing and exploring your body tmw beautiful =) Im going to make your body shake with pleasure
Btw it is I who'm she speak's of

Im soooooooo looking forward to seeing and exploring your body tmw beautiful =) Im going to make your body shake with pleasure
Btw it is I who'm she speak's of Originally Posted by prmex81

See you soon sexy

I was just seeing things diff in my eyes...than any body else....malaya

I was just seeing things diff in my eyes...than any body else....malaya Originally Posted by foxyred73

I understand that but some things should not be said unless you have hard facts. Regardless if that's how you see them. Especially when it's about a person. That is how you will end up pissing someone off by saying something you think you see about them and it is incorrect. Polite etiquette is to keep those things to yourself.

I was just seeing things diff in my eyes...than any body else....malaya Originally Posted by foxyred73

This seems to becomming a pattern.

Malaya, you know my feelings on the matter. I live this question every day. And yes you will get all kinds of answers and opinions on the matter. As Nikki said plenty of people live in the swinger lifestyle and have great relationships. It can work. But the keys as mentioned are communication, trust, and respect. And of course it's a two way street. If you want to be in a relationship and be a provider then it must go two ways.

No relationship is easy and it takes work. But you seem to have your priorities straight and that's the best start to a good relationship. Good luck and have fun !

Originally Posted by foxyred73
Malaya...thank you opening up about your feelings about you....you can think your friend helping you from another post that she wrote on the board about another post on welfare and wrote something about a girl and i think is about you.

Haley, everyone is entitled to their opinions, but in your case...you continually post things that have no relevance on the OPs thread.

And, it really doesn't matter how you try to defend yourself...when the OP tells you she doesn't appreciate you posting irrelevant info on HER thread...it would be best to simply apologize. You just don't seem to get that.

These girls feel like you're constantly trying to post some negative things about them...it's like you're throwing them under them bus every chance you get, for no reason. I doubt you would appreciate having that done to you!

One day she will burn so many bridges that she won't have any help when she needs it. Girls will remember things like elephants. Lol. What comes around goes around. And that's all that matters.

Yes. I do and have in the past. Cautions about both being discreet are still the same.

I am sorry that no nobody stayed on topic and she doent need to open herself up that much with she stong statments when she is comfort someone special in her life when she going to date someone .

i wish here the best of luck with here new man in her life


there is a diffent in standing up for yourself and protecting your bus nothing personal .

wow you still dont get it