BBBJ Etiquette: Controlling her hair

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It's not a true "Dallas Experience" till ya pull my hair...lol!!
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I usually defer to the preference of the person who holds my cock between their rows of teeth. Originally Posted by PullT
LMAO

Something that I thought of but never said many many times

Lina
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I always ask if the lady likes hair pulling. Then, whether BJ or FS when I get really into it, I know pulling is okay. Keeping it out of the way, playing with her hair, gently stroking her hair, she'll let me know if it's okay by the way she reacts.

I usually find out her preference as we're kissing. As I hold her neck, caress her hair, she usually kisses more passionately when I'm doing things right. If she's not into DFK, she lets me know as I'm kissing her neck, etc.

As far as messing up her hair --- after the BCD, I took the lady's brush and brushed her long hair for her. Just a little extra attention to her. Ladies, I know how to brush long hair.

Now, when I'm DATY, play with my hair all you want. I even had one lady pull my face and mouth hard against her whe she began cumming. I kept my tongue working her. Her moans were incredible. Her thighs tightened against my head. Her body pulsing. She came so hard and so much, it was like she hadn't had an O in forever. I swallowed all she had. And licked her gently as she relaxed.

I pay attention because the lady will let me know what she likes, includung her hair. Some women, like China, feel it's degrading. Another told me it was like she was being forced. She didn't like that feeling.
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quote---As far as messing up her hair --- after the BCD, I took the lady's brush and brushed her long hair for her. Just a little extra attention to her. Ladies, I know how to brush long hair.


you hon are a true gem!!!!
I agree Dallas! Any gentleman that would brush a woman hair after.... Truly is a gem, to be treasured!
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you hon are a true gem!!!! Originally Posted by DallasRain
Thank you.

Your hair looks very silky and touchable. There's something so pleasurable about having another run a brush and fingers through your hair. You get to relax like a kitten and purr.

Didn't mean to hijack the thread. Maybe another thread to discuss non-sexual stimulation.
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I agree Dallas! Any gentleman that would brush a woman hair after.... Truly is a gem, to be treasured! Originally Posted by Nicolet
Nicolet, Be sure to have a brush. It's an enjoyable part of afterplay. After all, I pulled it and played with it.
am-a-pleaser....but I don't have long hair..
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Oh Tiff honey, short hair like yours works well. Pulling, playing, fingers running through it massaging your head. And the brush. Just closing your eyes and letting me run the brush through it as you relax against me. It can be very seductive.
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I love having fingers in my hair, and sometimes the occasional light tug here and there. My only qualm is that I have extremely tiny spiral curls, so it's not exactly possible to run your fingers through it like you would with many other heads of hair. But I tell almost all of my friends to go for it! My hair is always messed up by the end of a visit anyways. Originally Posted by Adrielle
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Personally, I thought a lady's hair was always supposed to be messed up after a session, but some ladies have a different idea.

I remember once at the end of a great session, I was getting dressed and feeling thoroughly happy and relaxed when the girl wailed, "Look at me!" "You left me a total wreck!"

I was so surprised at that remark that I still remember it today!


To me, she looked beautiful!


Her untidy hair also looked beautiful to me! In my book, that's how her hair is supposed to look.


The only conclusion that I can draw is that men look at this world with different eyes than women do.


Ladies, please don't be so hard on yourselves!
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I agree Fast Gunn. There's something liberating and beautiful when her hair is all meesed up. Says something about the time you both enjoyed together. How many guys get to see her like that? None in the civie world.
Two thumbs up to Adrielle, Fast Gunn and Am-A-Pleaser.
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Two thumbs up to Adrielle, Fast Gunn and Am-A-Pleaser. Originally Posted by anova444
Analisa, omg honey, your hair looks so silky. We have got to meet. Just thinking about you and the way you'd look after our play. I bet it looks really frazzled afterwards. That's hot!

I'll gently brush it out.......in a little while.

I better go to bed. Now that you've aroused me so much.
That sounds great...Maybe after we've both recovered, you can help me shop for plastic furniture covers
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anova444---you are such a smooth talker..bet you are fun....cum see me in Nola babe!!!

I know for a fact that the lady this post is about has very long beautiful silky hair!!