Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

I don't talk very much at socials, but do see some that do. I would think most providers that aren't new can tell if a hobbyist is just talking or not, and some people are just very social. Originally Posted by sms918

Yes we do talk
there are a few guys that attend EVERY social...and are known to not "pay for play"
One even has a rep of waiting on a lady to get tipsy/drunk, and what do ya know...he just so happens to be "a safe ride home".
.no woman who has been IN that situation(whose thoughts are usually distorted by alcohol and/or other substances) has stated "foul play" or mentioned being taken advantage of.
However those on the outside looking in, can clearly tell thats exactly whats happening.
I guess hes great at forming "friendships"

Cant tell you his handle...i steer clear of him.

Yes we do talk
there are a few guys that attend EVERY social...and are known to not "pay for play"
One even has a rep of waiting on a lady to get tipsy/drunk, and what do ya know...he just so happens to be "a safe ride home".
.no woman who has been IN that situation(whose thoughts are usually distorted by alcohol) has stated "foul play" or mentioned being taken advantage of.
However those on the outside looking in, can clearly tell thats exactly whats happening.
I guess hes great at forming "friendships"

Cant tell you his handle...i steer clear of him. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

You should reconsider.

You are describing a Predator... possibly rapist.

Having known MANY a lady in this biz I can say that there is not shortage of girls that take the blame on themselves when they drink too much and end up compromising themselves in this manner.

If it happens to be a name with only 3 letters you would be confirming what 2 others have said off the boards.

If nothing else why aren't you asking CK how they get invited. You are describing someone that does not meet the guidelines of those events as they are stated.

Predator maybe. Rapist idk.
How he gets invited, i have no clue.
But he totally fits the description you provided earlier.
Idk his handle...but im sure he'll be at the next one.

Not medling in anyting.... Lookig for some fun stuff on some of the wusses....

Did this thread hit too close to home SFK? Originally Posted by Whispers

Nope. It didn't even come close to hitting anywhere near home.
Nice try, though. I'm no time waster.

I actually book appointments, and visit with the providers BCD. Can you say the same? (oh, let me guess, your answer is going to be along the same lines as "the nameless masses", right?heh!)

But if you are trying to insinuate anything in my regard, post that shit up out here in the open. Let's hear what you've got to say. If not, then back the fuck away from trying to include me in any part of your fucked-up games.

You make the claim that this is for "entertainment" and that you're not meddling in the ladies business. Let's say for a minute that's true, while it *might* be entertaining for you, you *are* meddling into their affairs. Why is it when you do something, it's entertainment, and when someone else has done it before, it's interfering?

In this instance, the ladies have SEVERAL avenues in which they can relay information of this matter, two of which remain behind the secret confines of the Ladies Only Areas..then there's The Provider's exchange, The National Blacklist, and on and on...yet you feel the need to champion their campaign under the (bullshit) guise of entertainment purposes. Pffft!

Swerve!



You talk about all of the pathetic wusses with no life having to waste the ladies time and blah, blah, blah...

I'd have to ask which is worse, and who has a more pathetic existence, those who waste the ladies time, or those who post silly fucking threAds to seek their entertainment from hearing about those that do that sort of shit?

Both are pretty fucking pathetic, if you ask me, although one is far more so than the other. If you have to ask yourself either question and have to thinck about the answer for even a fraction of a second, then you know exactly where you fit into the mix.


You want entertainment, take in a movie. There are some great ones out there.

heh!
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SofaKingDoMeAlready, you can waste my time anytime...ijs

Mynx, my sweet, sexy lil' temptress, our meeting would be the proverbial dot to the exclamation point in this whole, time wasters debacle; for our time would be anything *but* a waste of time- rather, time well spent.


I'll have my peeps call your peeps and let them tend to the arrangements.

Warmest regards,
SofaKingFun

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+1 You should also post it on whatever ladies only forum available to you. Maybe other providers noticed this as well and knows his handle. If I was the one planning these events, I would certainly like to know this info. Hope CK contacts you.

You should reconsider.

You are describing a Predator... possibly rapist.

Having known MANY a lady in this biz I can say that there is not shortage of girls that take the blame on themselves when they drink too much and end up compromising themselves in this manner.

If it happens to be a name with only 3 letters you would be confirming what 2 others have said off the boards.

If nothing else why aren't you asking CK how they get invited. You are describing someone that does not meet the guidelines of those events as they are stated. Originally Posted by Whispers

Sorry mirandalee,i you recalled you asked me what my size was.please do make to much of this.ok.....Thanks

Sorry mirandalee,i you recalled you asked me what my size was.please do make to much of this.ok.....Thanks Originally Posted by dickeybigg11

Come On now....

We need more of a rebuttal than that... She labeled you a huge waste of time man!

Let's hear the "other side of the story".

Sorry ,for any ladies that may read this,I have had to cancel a few times,not because I wanted to,but because of the type of job,that I have.I can get called in at any moment.And by the way I still think very highly of Leo,she is a great lady.

Sorry ,for any ladies that may read this,I have had to cancel a few times,not because I wanted to,but because of the type of job,that I have.I can get called in at any moment.And by the way I still think very highly of Leo,she is a great lady. Originally Posted by dickeybigg11

Come on now... 1000 texts?

No ,that is a little excessive,I'm really one of the good guys

Dickeybigg11 you keep telling me in all the pms and texts how big your dick is 10x7 to be exact over and over again wasting my time telling me if i can cum more than once and other sexual stuff. I dont need or want a guy blowing up my phone and inbox wasting my time. I saw you called me today please delete my number and move on.... and i do save everything in case... good luck to ya sir

Oh and I asked you what your size was I dont give a shit about a guy size should I copy and paste the pm's with your bragging about your dam cock, but yea I asked you lol... too funny...

Ah. More of the supposed nameless ones.

I think the biggest waste of time here is those that say they post for people who don't. Originally Posted by Precious_b

I am the nameless one.

I have not posted because I have been too angry to post and I prefer to have a clear head if n when I do post.

I will apologize for contacting Whispers instead of taking care of my own problems, but I will also say in my defense, that this is the 1st time in 14 years in the hobby that I have ever asked anyone for help. I have always fought my own battles.


Precious, you n I had a brief conversation over dinner about my feelings about eccie hobbyists. LAZ was present during this conversation......

LAZ is a complete time waster n IMHO he is a Thief of services.

I met LAZ at a social in Sept 2012 and he showed interest in me. We exchanged numbers and he commented he would like to take me dancing.

I attended a few more socials in 2013 and everytime LAZ would show extreme interest n would tell me to call him if I ever wanted to go out dancing or a movie..... I do not solicit, so I waited for him to contact me. He sent me several emails during the next 6 months but always about going out dancing or to a movie... I simply ignored him n waited for him to make a play date....

I received a message from LAZ mid August 2013 after seeing him at another social. His message read "I would like to spend some time with you n get to know you better. If you have time this week let me know"

I responded back n made plans(including dinner) on a day n time n gave him my address.....

He picks me up, we go have dinner, spend a total of 3 hrs with him we go back to my place n he says goodnight n leaves.

LAZ somehow thought we were going on a civi date ????


LAZ goes to EVERY social in San Antonio. He claims to go to meet prospective providers but confessed he can only afford to hobby every 6 months n then only sees Sonia playmate.

LAZ is a time waster, a liar n a thief. He portays himself as a sweet guy.... when he is just trying to befriend providers to get free female interaction.


LAZ is the hobbyist PrittyKitty describes....hewill wait for a provider to get drunk, etc at socials.... and offer a ride home....

IMHO if you attend all socials, you post regurarly, you should also PAY FOR PLAY this is NOT match.com

Providers expect the gents that are at socials to KNOW we are there to meet prospective CLIENTS not Boyfriends or Husbands.