How many p411 okays is too many?

What you ladies need to remember is our number of OK's does not always equal the number of providers we've actually seen. Sometimes we might see women that are not even on P411. Sometimes we don't even ask for an OK from everyone we meet. Some ladies will give you an OK without you even asking, and I know some guys only keep the OK's that they specifically asked for. Sometimes we simply delete OK's for various reasons.

Some of these guys could be considered serial hobbyists by your definition, but you would never know from their number of OK's or when you met them in person. You can't always assume because he only has X number of OK's, then he must not be a serial hobbyist.

Some of these guys could be serial hobbyists by your definition, but you would never know from their number of OK's or when you met them in person. You can't always assume because he only has X number of OK's, then he must not be a serial hobbyist. Originally Posted by The Nameless One

We can usually tell. You should read the link I posted.

You can't always assume because he only has X number of OK's, then he must not be a serial hobbyist. Originally Posted by The Nameless One

I would also like to ad that, just because he has well known providers listed, doesn't mean he isn't playing on the streets or other places that are considered unsavory.

I would also like to ad that, just because he has well known providers listed, doesn't mean he isn't playing on the streets or other places that are considered unsavory. Originally Posted by Ansley

But it gives you an idea of the kind of women he's into. It really does.

OP it doesn't really matter how many oks you have....just have the min to pass the Lady's screening.......anyone tells you different...they full of shit!!

So people stop asking them to explain.....unless you like the "talking out of their ass" post!!!

Seriously....who only see's 'low-volume' customers?....maybe someone but it dayum sure ain't any post whores on ECCIE that have 5 different handles, throw ads up on 5 different sites in 5 different states.....please go feed this shit to your WK's only....cuz the rest of us live in the real world!!

grabbn my balls as i walk off stage.....

BDS,

I am sure we don't all cater to the same clientele. We sure as hell don't work the same.
I don't know who you were referring to in your post but I can say I have rejected guys based
on the ladies they saw alone. Yes a lot of us WILL NOT see serial hobbyists.
There are certain people I don't want to "share" with . Call it whatever you want but
that's just how I choose to work.

For another provider to call another provider's way of doing things
"stupid" or "full of shit" is hilarious. What did you have to gain by that attack?

It's interesting. It almost sounds as if some are saying, "your system really isn't fool proof so you should change how you do things". Just because "we" feel it may not work doesn't mean their way of doing things doesn't work for them.

I've seen some guys actually get upset cause a lady decided not to see them based on various reasons...lol. Those are the guys that feel that their money is as good as the next wtf. It takes their power away, therefore they get pissy. Kinda funny to see.

BDS.... Have you ever denied anyone that might wanna see you?

EA, Some ladies see any and everyone and don't believe that there are some of us that DO decline men for our own reasons. It is common. It's just like the ladies that don't believe their rates are too low... they don't believe they're worth it and no man would pay a higher rate to see them. lol! I never knew that some guys will decline to see a girl. Some men will even decline to see a girl because of her poor grammar or lack of proper use of punctuation marks. This hobby is very funny in that sense.

It's interesting. It almost sounds as if some are saying, "your system really isn't fool proof so you should change how you do things". Just because "we" feel it may not work doesn't mean their way of doing things doesn't work for them.

I've seen some guys actually get upset cause a lady decided not to see them based on various reasons...lol. Those are the guys that feel that their money is as good as the next wtf. It takes their power away, therefore they get pissy. Kinda funny to see. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Well said!

BDS.... Have you ever denied anyone that might wanna see you? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Not because of the number of ok's a man has....

If i did decline a guy because of his numbers.....i would be defeating a purpose that P411 holds......

i don't know about you but i like Gina and the way she runs her site!!

It has nothing to do with the OKs per say. So people here don't know how to read?

Chica,

Escort Jenny Demillo wrote a wonderful blog about this very subject. You can read it right here http://jennydemilo.com/?p=597. I share her sentiment. Clients tend to be low drama, they come, pay, leave and return to their personal lives. Hobbyists don't. They are the exact opposite (very few exceptions) BUT that blog states exactly why I choose not to see serial hobbyists. It's right on point. I have experienced this with SOME of the hobbyists here on eccie. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Ooh sweetheart...

I have to retract that statement and I am sorry if I offended anyone. I meant I do not see men that see so many providers in very little time. Valerie said it very well. When a man has seen 20-40 different women in two months that's a huge red flag for me. If a man has 70 or even 100 reviews over the course of 5 years then that is ok. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Taking a quote from that blog:

"A client is a man who screws hookers. A hobbyist is a man who not only screws hookers but delves so deeply in the culture of fucking hookers that they think it makes them special… that they fuck hookers."

A client can still fuck 40 women in 2 months. Maybe he's addicted to sex, has an unusually high sex drive, or whatever. Would you still see this client even if he was "low drama, treated you well and was respectful of you," etc. etc.? He could be considered a "health" liability to some, but he fits the mold and has the attitude of a good "client" and not a serial "hobbyist".

@EA - I'm not trying to get them to change the way they do things. I'm more interested in their reasoning.

I hear ya BDS. I like the way Gina does things too

From what I can tell they are saying it's not so much the number of girls as much as it is the "type" and how many of that "type" they have seen. Now what that type is I'm sure varies from woman to woman.

TNO... I wasn't singleing anyone out with my post. Just stating how I percieved the thread in general.....

I hear ya BDS. I like the way Gina does things too

From what I can tell they are saying it's not so much the number of girls as much as it is the "type" and how many of that "type" they have seen. Now what that type is I'm sure varies from woman to woman. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Damn right EA. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that engages in slipper slide. I will not see a man that sees a girl that engages in BBFS. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that's known for blackmailing or outing. I will NOT see a man that sees a dirty girl(reviews say she smells, doesn't take care of herself). I will NOT see a client that sees a girl that uses drugs. I don't know why this is so suprising to some but a lot of us screen both the client and the providers he has seen. As a provider , I'm at bigger risk for contracting a disease so to say that I am not going to see a man just because he has seen 40 women in 2 months that he could have contracted something is just silliy. My reasons go beyond that.

P.s Just FYI there are many ladies here on this board that engage in stripper slide/bbfs and guys still see them anyway. Yes geniuses.