Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie??? - Page 5

Yeah. I'm a straight shooter myself.

If you really believe that, why do you lie? Why not list your real age? Afterall, per above the gents targeting that market don't care anyway....

And if you lie about your age it begs the question, what else do you lie about? Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I believe the reason is....most people have a tough time "stepping out of the box" and taking a chance on something they would not normally do.

Example....I met a man somewhere who proclaimed to only like huge breasted ladies and would only see providers who had them. We got together and while mine aren't huge, they are very nice. He had a GREAT time when he came to see me and we've had repeat visits. Now, had he not met me, he never would have contacted me, because he had a mind set on what attracted him. He stepped outside the box. Most men won't if they only know non-personal stats about us, such as age, weight, hair color and for the most part the ladies know how far we can push it without stepping over the line, some don't and that's a shame. Basically, it's marketing and we want to target a larger group that would never have considered seeing us otherwise. Hope that makes sense.

I believe the reason is....most people have a tough time "stepping out of the box" and taking a chance on something they would not normally do.

Example....I met a man somewhere who proclaimed to only like huge breasted ladies and would only see providers who had them. We got together and while mine aren't huge, they are very nice. He had a GREAT time when he came to see me and we've had repeat visits. Now, had he not met me, he never would have contacted me, because he had a mind set on what attracted him. He stepped outside the box. Most men won't if they only know non-personal stats about us, such as age, weight, hair color and for the most part the ladies know how far we can push it without stepping over the line, some don't and that's a shame. Basically, it's marketing and we want to target a larger group that would never have considered seeing us otherwise. Hope that makes sense. Originally Posted by M A X

No it isn't just marketing it is a lie....

If I was a restaurant and sold you something as "fat-free," "sugar-free," "meatless," or "Kosher" etc. & I knew for a fact it wasn't but thought that you really "just need to step out of the box" would it be ok? Even if I was well intended? Rationalize it all you want...a lie is a lie...

OK...we are ALL big fat liars out to deceieve you at every turn....LOL I'm actually a brunette, 3'4", have an eyeball in the back of my head and weigh 297 lbs. You were right and the rest of us are all lying bimbos. Whatever ya do, don't read any of my reviews, cause all the guys are lying too....LMFAO

You're such a bold faced liar, Max!!!

Awwww.....Best compliment I had all day....TY! muah~

M A X

3'4" 297 lbs, you must have put something in my drink...Cause I walked away saying hot damn...what a looker!

Well most of this is pretty funny.

People lie. The bed room just isn't the place for it.
I'm not going to tell you that you are the best primarily because that bar has been set ultra high. You aren't going to come close to even ranking in close to it with a single 1 hr session to start.

Lets cut to the chase not every guy that comes to an escort needs any sort of ego boost. Some do some don't. That's part of learning to judge the person you are with. Not every guy that goes to an escort has a problem picking up women, or issues in the bedroom.... there are a number of reasons a guy may see an escort verse picking up someone.

Frankly the extra mouth running and noise is distracting and detracts from the moment. If its real that is one thing. If it is fake I know it I am sure I am not the only guy that knows it considering someone else started the thread. I know if you actually orgasm and if you are pretending.

We know when your clock watching and the entire 9 yards.

Some, if not all, of the following are lies that appear BCD. Why do ladies find it necessary to lie about these things?

"Your cock is so big/thick/long."

"You're such a good lover."

[She moans, moans, then screams as if she has an orgasm. Especially in DATY.]

"I should have brought a magnum."

"Oh, God, you're sooooooo deep in me!"

"Damn, you're good!"

[Pretends to love DFK/LFK.]

[She moans when you suck her nipples.]

[Other lies meant to build up your manliness.]

. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

They tell you these things?? Now I really have self-esteem issues... thanks a lot.

You are right.....that's what that 3rd eye in the back of my head is good for.....watching that clock....LOL (sorry....I couldn't help myself....:-) )

However, I agree, some are more genuine than others and 1 hour is NEVER enough to truly be able to judge what others are like or capable of in a sexual situation. Do your homework....I'm sure the ladies that are getting good reviews have not fooled all the men that have given them. I'm also pretty sure that all the gents are NOT lying about the actual woman's appearance and what their own personal experience was with her. This is probably why there are always more gents in the review sections, other than any other forums on the board.

Some criteria while searching the reviews of any lady might be....how much time was spent, or has this person writing the review been with this lady more than once, are her reviews consistant, try not to take one negative review and let it sway you if there are several other great reviews which state otherwise, as everyone has off days and not everyone "clicks" on a sexual level, especially in an hour. You always have the option to try another lady if the lady you were with didn't meet your own personal expectations.

I know....unsolicited advice to men from a woman. However, if I were a man....hopefully, I'd do my research, rather than just look at the pics and stats provided by the woman and then get upset because it wasn't what I had hoped for. I'm just sayin'. :-)

James Carville once wrote a chapter in a book on ass kissing. He had a very good perspective. He says that folks who say, "I'm not going to kiss any body's ass," are the worst kind of dumb asses.

He defines ass kissing as making somebody else feel good to to help get them to do something you want them to do for you. Perhaps these phrases are not so much lies as a bit of ass kissing. And as Carville says, "Never do we stand so tall as when we stoop to kiss an ass." Great words of wisdom, indeed.

Of course, there has to be some plausibility to the expression in question. A guy who comes in with a two or three inch dick may not buy the "Ooh, you have such a big dick," line. But there is nothing wrong with a bit of semi-plausible flattery to make someone's day or get better service. It's part of life.

If you can't give (or receive) that sort of flattery without being cynical, they you are on of Carville's "worst kind of dumb asses."

You are right.....that's what that 3rd eye in the back of my head is good for.....watching that clock....LOL (sorry....I couldn't help myself....:-) )

However, I agree, some are more genuine than others and 1 hour is NEVER enough to truly be able to judge what others are like or capable of in a sexual situation. Do your homework....I'm sure the ladies that are getting good reviews have not fooled all the men that have given them. I'm also pretty sure that all the gents are NOT lying about the actual woman's appearance and what their own personal experience was with her. This is probably why there are always more gents in the review sections, other than any other forums on the board.

Some criteria while searching the reviews of any lady might be....how much time was spent, or has this person writing the review been with this lady more than once, are her reviews consistant, try not to take one negative review and let it sway you if there are several other great reviews which state otherwise, as everyone has off days and not everyone "clicks" on a sexual level, especially in an hour. You always have the option to try another lady if the lady you were with didn't meet your own personal expectations.

I know....unsolicited advice to men from a woman. However, if I were a man....hopefully, I'd do my research, rather than just look at the pics and stats provided by the woman and then get upset because it wasn't what I had hoped for. I'm just sayin'. :-) Originally Posted by M A X

I'll admit I am a fairly hard judge. I know women don't always have perfect days and they are people and as people we all have issues. Usually if I have a so so time with someone I just don't even post a review. It gives them the chance to improve and or get a better review with another person. They may have just had a bad day.

The best sex I had was always with someone I new on a far more personal level and usually involved long periods of love making sessions lasting more than a few hours. My wallet won't support that with an escort currently.

There are other factors as well.

As consistent as a woman may be she can have her off days and times and issues and she isn't going to click with everyone. So why knock her for that if I already know I have a higher bar to reach.

The only time I post a negative on a woman is she is just blatantly rude or a scam or a rip off.

M A X

3'4" 297 lbs, you must have put something in my drink...Cause I walked away saying hot damn...what a looker! Originally Posted by tramp76137

Thank you kind sir...

xoxo

Oh, I see.

So you show up looking like Fred Flinstone but in an attempt to boost your ego, I say nice things to you to make you feel better about yourself. I moan during DATY even though you're sucking my pussy and biting my clit and it hurts. I DFK even though your mouth smells and tastes like an unwashed asshole. You slam your cock into me in a vain attempt to perform like a "porn star" even though it's clearly rough on me.

Yet I still try to be nice and say things I think will make you feel good about yourself, because that's my job.

And that's a bad thing.

I guess the better choice would be to lay as completely still as possible, as you do what you will to me, and keep my mouth tightly closed during our session.

And then wait for the review that says "She lay there like a cold fish".

We can't win.

Oh, I see.

So you show up looking like Fred Flinstone but in an attempt to boost your ego, I say nice things to you to make you feel better about yourself. I moan during DATY even though you're sucking my pussy and biting my clit and it hurts. I DFK even though your mouth smells and tastes like an unwashed asshole. You slam your cock into me in a vain attempt to perform like a "porn star" even though it's clearly rough on me.

Yet I still try to be nice and say things I think will make you feel good about yourself, because that's my job.

And that's a bad thing.

I guess the better choice would be to lay as completely still as possible, as you do what you will to me, and keep my mouth tightly closed during our session.

And then wait for the review that says "She lay there like a cold fish".

We can't win. Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

Wow. I may have to back to the night clubs.

In reality, what Heather states here is probably too often true. That's why I tip my hat to providers and never could be one myself.