A) I didn't realize it was a win-lose monger vs provider type of scenario or that providers in general were getting bullied here.Very true, on both ends.
I feel like we are going to get into some semantic ridiculousness over the word "bullying". I will get into that later, but something is going on, right? There is a thread by a guy called, "quit being a dick", and in this thread where several guys admitted to being a jackass for the hell of it and there was a general discussion about whether some of the gentlemen on here might be sociopaths. So, win/lose scenario among provider and monger. No, not really what i was getting at. That comment had to do with the board in general. I will leave it to you to read the prior posts in the thread, but a lot of that conversation had to do with gentlemen who stay on the board in search of attention and/or some perceived power over the ladies by their involvement/and sometimes constant presence on the board. Not only that, but those members who seem to be particulary negative attention seekers. My comment was really a compliment to most of the men I have met through this board. Those that are the negative attention seekers are also noticed by the many other men on this board. And sometimes, they appreciate having female voices who will offer, say, a counter-voice. Mine may not always be the most eloquent or most perceptive, but when I have spoken my mind in certain threads, I almost always get contacted by a few people who seem to appreciate that.
B) "At the end of the day, we win" sounds like a classic case of GPS.
Okay. More accurately put, a lot of women don't want to speak their mind on here for various reasons, but because there are a lot of really great men on here who do not like a lot of the negativity thrown at women, it sometimes works out in reaching potential clientele. That is what I meant by "win".
It is my belief that he who finishes the day with cash still in pocket is the undisputed winner.
I don't hold to that philosophy at all. Donald Trump has a lot more money than me, but I would rather be me.
When a monger books an hour session for what took him two or three days to earn he loses big time but when she makes the monger feel good enough he justifies it to himself.
So, if you feel like you lose big time everytime you book an appointment with someone, why do you continue to do it?
Make no mistake about it he still realizes he just blew three days earnings just to scratch a momentary itch.
If she refuses his biz because of silly posts he wins by default. A simple self rub n tug in an emergency (No such thing) and it's like she never existed. Meanwhile he's relieved with $$$ still in his wallet as she waits for the nicer board poster to call.
There are far easier/safer instant alternatives to spending $$$ per hour just to scratch a momentary itch.
So ya'll keep saying. My feeling is there is a reason this is called the oldest profession. Scratching that itch in another way just doesn't seem to work as well.
If the money is burning a hobby hole in his pocket then Eccie is only a drop in the bucket as far as resources available to both provider and monger. Originally Posted by Codybeast
Seriously, my apologies for divulging information I shouldn't have. I completely understand whatever action the moderators need to take here. Was my mistake. Won't happen again
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