How many p411 okays is too many?

Ladies,

Let's say a gentleman interested in seeing you has just sent you an email with all the needed info in it- Name, age, requested time and date, provider references, p411, DateCheck, and TER numbers. Everything looks in order then you pull up his p411 or DateCheck account and notice he has 25-30 okays. What goes through your mind at that point?

A. Everything seems to be in order, can't wait to meet him.

B. He must be rich and sees a lot of girls.

C. Just glad he has references and don't want to pass judgement. After all, I've seen quite a few people myself.

D. Yikes! I sure hope he plays safe and doesn't have any diseases having seen that many ladies.

I think I have gotten all the above responses. I had one lady with over 100 TER reviews question my safety. But I've had others say they know I'm okay to see and not an ax murderer with that many okays.

Any thoughts?

I didn't know if I needed to quit giving out reviews and maybe delete a few okays? Originally Posted by pipefitter73

And that's good Naomi that you have someone to guide you through this....but i was not referring to your link as your link was not in the OP....
He in fact is talking about the OK's per say...so therefore i was tooo....

as always....tryn to stay on topic

as always....tryn to stay on topic Originally Posted by babydollsnow

We're all on topic here. Anyways...

Taking a quote from that blog:

"A client is a man who screws hookers. A hobbyist is a man who not only screws hookers but delves so deeply in the culture of fucking hookers that they think it makes them special… that they fuck hookers." Originally Posted by The Nameless One

Geesh.. I love that woman. lol.

TNO, If that client has a p411 and he has seen a girl that doesn't meet my requirements then I will not see him.
Would you want to see a girl that engaged in BBFS? I'm guessing NO.

Not to go off topic but even when a member has 30-40 ok's I think ladies shouldn't rely on that alone. I've read alerts where ladies get busted and say "he had a million ok's". Like someone stated here earlier the number of ok's doesnt necessarily mean they've had a session with the lady.

I'm wondering if when ladies see my ok's they proabaly say something like "damn this dudes a slut!"

mojo they don't have to see your numbers to know that LMAO.....

Not to go off topic but even when a member has 30-40 ok's I think ladies shouldn't rely on that alone. I've read alerts where ladies get busted and say "he had a million ok's". Like someone stated here earlier the number of ok's doesnt necessarily mean they've had a session with the lady.

I'm wondering if when ladies see my ok's they proabaly say something like "damn this dudes a slut!" Originally Posted by mojojo213

Yes I usually think to myself "Damn he's such a whore".. or *gasps* "He saw her????" LOL!

Yes I usually think to myself "Damn he's such a whore".... Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I'll have you know I worked hard for that. . . . . a little compliment here and there wouldnt hurt im just sayin!

I keep my okays updated, not everyone okays when you ask for them. No system of statics will tell you how a person truly is in every possible situation, but the okay system as a whole works great IMHO. As far as the OP question goes, I'ma roll with C. Just glad he has references and don't want to pass judgement. After all, I've seen quite a few people myself.

Sometimes we guys take a chance on a provider that has maybe had a past based on trusted information and it turns out that the provider has turned the corner and doesn't engage in unsafe practices any longer. Some have a past and unfortunately some are judged by their past without anyone ever giving them the benefit of the doubt and that is truly a sad thing.....

If you think about it, sometimes the hobbyists have a little more insight on a lady that has a past for the very fact that they have seen and talked to them in person rather than going by the rumors out there....

grabbn my balls as i walk off stage..... Originally Posted by babydollsnow

and what a swagger you have! I've missed seeing you around.

As always, you keep it real.

Providers have balls now . Different market I guess.
When one or two providers don't do things like the others it's considered "not real".
Anyways back to the OP.

I had alot of ok's on p411 and had a couple of providers tell me that I saw too many providers and they didn't want to see me because of it when I was hobbying. I actually went in and removed over half of them. I guess there are two sides to everything. Originally Posted by burkalini

I'm glad that some share our sentiment.

But it gives you an idea of the kind of women he's into. It really does. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

If you believe everything you read, maybe it does.

EA i think your missing the actual question from the OP.....a good or bad background has nothing to do with the number of oks a hobbyist have....thats other screening Technics that are not part of the question the OP asked!!



Naomi......keep hitting that refresh button.....31 post a day...ouch!!

eited: Ansley, you know i will beautiful.....I learned from all dem over yonder on dat der island!!

Naomi......keep hitting that refresh button.....31 post a day...ouch!! Originally Posted by babydollsnow

At least you know I'm not seeing 5-10 men a day and I'm getting my bills paid somehow. I don't have review comment saying you can park a buick in my pussy for good reason. What's it to you? Get back to the subject of this thread and stop threajacking with your useless personal attacks.

I think I have gotten all the above responses. I had one lady with over 100 TER reviews question my safety. But I've had others say they know I'm okay to see and not an ax murderer with that many okays.
Originally Posted by pipefitter73

Pipefitter www.escortdrama.com Just because a man has 1000 references doesn't mean he is legit or safe.

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