relationship with a provider

you mean the young teenage hotties dont want a fat smelly gray haired 50 yrs old guy on top of them grunting n groaning ? say it ait so! LMAO Originally Posted by latinalover

What's your point, LL? What I want to know is: Do they love me for who I am?

hey hey now....some have fantasies of older gents

you mean the young teenage hotties dont want a fat smelly gray haired 50 yrs old guy on top of them grunting n groaning ? say it ait so! LMAO Originally Posted by latinalover

Oh WOW!! Thats terrible!! you're brave!! lol!!

If it's on the up and up then she will get a real job and quit charging you or making you pay for everything.

IMHO the only way it could work if she is new to the business and really wants out. If you hook up with a veteran she's basically just looking for a little break from providing or to "retire" with one REALLY good customer. Originally Posted by uparoundnoon

I don't entirely agree. I wasn't looking to retire nor have I yet.. clearly lol. I enjoy my "job" if you want to call it that. Not every girl is a money hungry gold digger looking for her next "hit". I would agree that 98% of relationships started and continued in this line of work are hard to maintain for many reasons. I have managed to do it, and I guarantee you I pay for just as many as the bills as my SO. So I didn't find some cash cow to make my life easy.

I wouldn't suggest trying to start a relationship to any one. You might run into a girl that is simply using you for a easy paycheck, or you might run into a guy who will tell you everything you want to hear and will just be using you and manipulating you for a free piece of ass. But if it happens on its own and you can have trust, communication, and compromise go for it !.

I've held out, until now, about response to this question because to be honest, I don't know. Logically thought through, it is a bad idea. What are you going to tell family and friends about how you met and what you do? So this either leads to being honest with a select few or lying to everyone. And the fall out from either way, again, bad idea.
Here is the kicker, I'm also a firm believer that the heart wants what the heart wants,
for better or for worse. If 2 people make each other happy, and truly love each other then why not. Is it practical, wise or logical no, but matters of the heart are never logical, practical or wise. It just is.
So is it wise no, Is it possible yes, Is it worth it? Well thats for the couple to decide for themselves.

Well thats my 2 cents................did I answer the question? (Damn, I feel like a politician now.) Originally Posted by sanantonioman37

I like that: "The heart wants what the heart wants"

I think you can't put a boundary on love. I don't think it is wise to look for it in a hooby world but if it happens , let it. What you do docent define who you are. I had great relationship with a provider. We are still great friends to this day. Any relationship can be good r bad. Your chances are always 50/50. The bigger picture s , be real, be truthful, communicate even if it is difficult, admit when you are wrong, realize love is not enough,and sex is just sex. There are plenty of good providers that deserved to be lved and not judged.