Why is it that some of you can act like the biggest asses sometimes on the board but

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Scarlett, I've never seen you and only made one reply to this thread, but I would like to add a little more insight (possibly) here if I may.

You asked: I am just asking why some of you ACT like assholes on the board, but are nice in person?

I believe it goes back to what has already been said, it's too easy to be a jackass when you are hiding behind a keyboard and not face to face. Here's an example. Let's say said Asshole is actually mild-mannered, 5'6", nerdy looking, Clark Kent type (minus the good looks sans the glasses and nice abs concealed under the shirt). Let's further say that most of his life, in the real world, he's the kid that got picked on in school (btw, this scenario works for both men and women). With the advent of the Internet/chat rooms/social media all of the sudden the person behind the keyboard can actually BECOME what they may secretly want to be. No longer do they have to put up with bullying, no longer do they have to sit on the sideline while the other "boys and girls" are picked first. So all of the sudden this new persona evolves and he/she likes it. The only problem is, eventually he/she has to step back into the real world and assume the role of Clark Kent once again, because that is all they REALLY know, plus deep down, they really are nice people.

We are women here. Yes, hookers are women too. Yes, both have feelings. We are tender and delicate and get our feelings hurt. Isn't that part of the reason men like women? All part of the things that encompass femininity? Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

See here is where things get complicated, but let's be very candid for a minute.
Q: Why are most women here? Answer: $$$
Q: Why are most men here? Answer: To get laid. Plain and simple

Men and women approach this aspect of life from totally different perspectives. In general, by that I mean women by-and-large, associate feelings with sex. It's how they are psychologically made up. Some have the ability to disassociate themselves from this 'fake world of illusion' and treat this like a job, while others find themselves emotionally intertwined with all that is happening. In the real world, very seldom do you hear of a man having an emotional affair, whereas it is very common with women. And whether vocalized or not, men and women both know this. Women know men crave sex and men know (in the real world) that if they are going to get sex, they MUST treat a woman with respect or she won't give him the time of day. Let me put it another way, men want to conquer things, including women. That's who we are. That's why after marriage men tend to move on to other goals in life. It's not that he does not love his wife, but she's been conquered. A smart woman knows how to keep mystery in the marriage. Unfortunately most women forget about the mystique side of their femininity after marriage … and here we are today.

So back to the quoted text, and my question, "Why are men here?" Ladies, this is crass, and I don't mean to demean a single one of you, but we don't care about building a relationship with a single one of you. We don't associate sex to feelings, at least not in the same manner the average woman does. We are not interested in deep conversations, whether you are 'in the mood' or whatever. To us, in this world, this is a business transaction. I pay, you deliver.

Again, I'm not trying to make someone feel less than a person, but this is the hard realities of this profession/hobby. When the real world of human nature and the fantasy world of human nature collide, it gets very confusing.

I will say that you nailed it with the male ego part, as well as the girls speaking out part. But again, this is not the real world (without getting overly complicated in that statement), this is a fantasy world (imagine The Matrix). Here I can stroke my ego, because if I'm willing to pay the price I can be with someone as striking as you, whereas in the real world, what are my chances (sans the money exchange)? And here, because everyone of us know that the only way we are going to have any chance of seeing you ladies to is pay up, then I'll be damned if I'm going to sit back and listen to you bitch about 'anything.' It's a business transaction to us. Again, I'm not meaning to be crass, but we don't put feelings with this. We are choosing how we spend our money to get what we can't get, or don't want to mess with all the baggage to get in the real world. IF I'm going to pay for sex, then I'm sure as hell not going to listen to all the emotional dribble that I have to listen to at home.

Ok, I think I've psychoanalyzed this male vs. female, real world vs. fantasy world enough. I'll go back to my cave for a while.

What is this "we" you speak of, onei? I know it doesn't include me. And I really dislike when others assume it is okay to speak for me.

I am neither 5'6" nor meek. And I've done my share of conquering. But I'll have some feeling with my sex just the same, thank you very much. The more the merrier.

But thanks for saving FG the need to chime in with his aphoristic nonsense.

What is this "we" you speak of, onei? I know it doesn't include me. And I really dislike when others assume it is okay to speak for me.

I am neither 5'6" nor meek. And I've done my share of conquering. But I'll have some feeling with my sex just the same, thank you very much. The more the merrier.

But thanks for saving FG the need to chime in with his aphoristic nonsense. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Case and point — asshole behind the keyboard!

If you read it again, EVERYTHING there is speaking in general terms. Get you panties out of a wad and get over it.

A) I didn't realize it was a win-lose monger vs provider type of scenario or that providers in general were getting bullied here.

There is a thread by a guy called, "quit being a dick", and in this thread where several guys admitted to being a jackass for the hell of it.

In this particular case I admit to pushing his buttons because he basically was asking for it by starting a thread called "Quit being a dick" while proceeding to hypocritically and immaturely act like the biggest dick in the thread through attacks and continued drama.
I don't recall having ever before pushed a button for entertainment purposes and I've been around a loooong time.


It is my belief that he who finishes the day with cash still in pocket is the undisputed winner.

I don't hold to that philosophy at all. Donald Trump has a lot more money than me, but I would rather be me.

I thought it was pretty clear that I was specifically referring to the context of the thread as relating to cash between provider & monger as opposed to rich man vs poor man in general. I should have spelled it out. My bad.

When a monger books an hour session for what took him two or three days to earn he loses big time but when she makes the monger feel good enough he justifies it to himself.

So, if you feel like you lose big time every time you book an appointment with someone, why do you continue to do it? .

Actually I haven't booked a session since early 2011 for that very reason. In other words I came to my senses.
When I do book again it will simply be to treat myself to a beautiful, 20 something, petite and exotic provider offering a full menu.
This is something a mature man isn't likely to experience on Match or other free dating sites.

There has never been a short supply of sex from average looking or 40+ wonderful women on these sites and few have relationship expectations by this point. They're just happy to hang with a guy they can relate to who is still fit and unmarried.

Booking again will simply be a splurge like blowing $300 on a good bottle of wine or at a Vegas blackjack table. I personally don't see the sensibility in regularly blowing this sort of hard earned cash on a quick piece of ass. That however is another thread.

You may wonder why I am even here. As I've stated before, I rarely log on and when I do it's purely to check out the provider ads to see if there is anyone worth breaking my hobby-free streak. Also I'm here for the momentary distraction of entertainment in these sections.
In other words I choose to use the hobby rather than be used by it.

Not to worry as I'll log off soon enough and forget about Eccie for another 6-12 months Originally Posted by Annef

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Fair enough, dude. I'm not worried.

... asshole behind the keyboard!
Originally Posted by onei

Do you know how hard it is to type with your asshole behind the keyboard?

Most, and I am over generalizing here, assholes are in front of the keyboard.

Now that I think about it, let's make that ALL

... If you read it again, EVERYTHING there is speaking in general terms ... Originally Posted by onei

Believe me, I really didn't want to read it again. But what the hey, maybe I was wrong the first time through. Let's have a look at all these generalities that didn't speak for the whole male population, of which I am one.

Q: Why are most women here? Answer: $$$
Q: Why are most men here? Answer: To get laid. Plain and simple

I have no big objection to this - you do qualify your unsubstantiated claim with "most."

Men and women approach this aspect of life from totally different perspectives.

Okay, here we go. You have some supporting evidence for this statement? Of course not. It's nonsense. How could you possibly know how I, or any one of the thousands of other men on this site, approach "this aspect of life"? You don't have a clue.

In general, by that I mean women by-and-large, associate feelings with sex.

More unsupported nonsense. But I am not a woman so I will not dwell.

It's how they are psychologically made up.

This is an embarrassingly infantile thought. Christ, open a book. (Or just be quiet?)


... In the real world, very seldom do you hear of a man having an emotional affair ...

I had an exquisite one end not 6 weeks ago. Intense. Spectacular. Now you've heard of one. Maybe others will come forward.

Women know men crave sex and men know (in the real world) that if they are going to get sex, they MUST treat a woman with respect or she won't give him the time of day.

This isn't really worth commenting on but I will anyhow because I had to read it twice. Banal is embarrassed for you, Okay.

Let me put it another way, men want to conquer things, including women.

I have no desire to conquer women. Your offensive ideas, yes. Man or woman, no. See the difference?


That's who we are

See, that annoying "we" thing again. Do you see where you have made yourself spokesperson for me, and all of MANHOOD? And newsflash: you are not equipped.

That's why after marriage men tend to move on to other goals in life.

I didn't move on. I've heard many don't. They don't view their spouse as a conquest or trophy, but as a friend and partner. But I have only heard that, I don't lay claim to be an expert on that topic. Other than on my own personal experience, which, presumably, I know more about than some guy on the internets who is busy telling me what I think and do.


A smart woman knows how to keep mystery in the marriage.

What is this the 60's? Did you grow up on "Father Knows Best" and "Leave it to Beaver"? That would explain alot. Of course, I don't think Ward conquered June. Not onscreen anyhow.

Unfortunately most women forget about the mystique side of their femininity after marriage … and here we are today.

No longer in the blessed 60's.

So back to the quoted text, and my question, "Why are men here?" Ladies, this is crass, and I don't mean to demean a single one of you, but we don't care about building a relationship with a single one of you.

I care. Therefore I am. And please stop speaking for me.


We don't associate sex to feelings, at least not in the same manner the average woman does.

I do. I've heard others do. I'm guessing you don't. Which is fine if your post would say "I" instead of "we." Seeing the difference yet, or need I go on?



We are not interested in deep conversations ...

I am. I love them. I can not help it. (Would you agree this has become a kind of deep conversation? I'm doing it so I must be enjoying it. I wish you were a girl though.

To us, in this world, this is a business transaction.

us = we. I object. Again. Yawn. Are we almost done?

I pay, you deliver.

See how easy that was?


Here I can stroke my ego, because if I'm willing to pay the price I can be with someone as striking as you, whereas in the real world, what are my chances (sans the money exchange)?


When you choose your pronouns more carefully I have no objection. Your opinion, your experience, your post.

And here, because everyone of us know that the only way we are going to have any chance of seeing you ladies to is pay up,

Objection!


but we don't put feelings with this. We are choosing how we spend our money to get what we can't get,

Do you see how objectionable your comments are yet? You know nothing of my feelings or my abilities, or lack thereof, in the real world, and yet you see fit to speak for me?

or don't want to mess with all the baggage to get in the real world. IF I'm going to pay for sex, then I'm sure as hell not going to listen to all the emotional dribble that I have to listen to at home.

Ok, I think I've psychoanalyzed this male vs. female, real world vs. fantasy world enough. Originally Posted by onei

Enough. Yes. Hopefully.

Do you know how hard it is to type with your asshole behind the keyboard?

Most, and I am over generalizing here, assholes are in front of the keyboard.

Now that I think about it, let's make that ALL Originally Posted by fun2come

Hahaha I had a job in the service in which I was required to read and write backwards and upside down . So I can stay behind my keyboard . lol

you were a SPY!!!!!!

Believe me, I really didn't want to read it again. But what the hey, maybe I was wrong the first time through. Let's have a look at all these generalities that didn't speak for the whole male population, of which I am one.



Enough. Yes. Hopefully. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

There is an old saying that is relevant here: Never argue with a fool. You don't know shit about what you just said. I'm out.

Hahaha I had a job in the service in which I was required to read and write backwards and upside down . So I can stay behind my keyboard . lol Originally Posted by rockerrick

Well, see I did it as well (I spoke for ALL), yet there is always at least one "asshole" who is an exception (not implying an exceptional asshole).

One can do it in LONG endless posts, or just in a few words and sentences.

RR, can you post a pic of you typing with YOUR ASS behind the keyboard (I accept Ipads or Iphones as well), just for entertaining purposes.

This THREAD needs an ass or an asshole.

Hahaha you know there's no below the waist nudity , unless you're one of their rip off advertisers .

Damn, and here I thought I could lure you into the missing points, lol

... and I never said NAKED.