Looking for a relationship with a provider?

Most doctors don't treat their own family. A good lawyer will find somebody detached to represent his family also. Does a good provider outsource as well? Hmmm. Originally Posted by texascoffee

why wouldn't a doctor treat their own family?

maybe these days that they have so many insane laws with prescriptions and people abusing drugs and whatnot...they have to resort to this type of thought process and action, but i doubt it's only due to choice.

i'm not paying someone else to sew up my kid's big toe if my kid can do it calmly with me.

especially if we live in a small town, my kid better sit the hell still while i handle what i know how to do.

regarding law - well, that's just conflict of interest.


basing provider terms to this is kind of stupid. sorry - i'm calling you out on it.

sure - bring someone in to play. but it is mainly going to depend on HER and HER feelings on the matter. a provider is going to have completely different views on sex and relationships than most women, period.

Lesson One, Verses 1 - 2 from the Book of TNTAngie...

I'll have to remember those. Originally Posted by legman+

i do appreciate the compliments very much,

but they are not my original thoughts.

i just thought they were very good ideas and shared with the group.

i hope you all can use them in life as well.

I just had a random thought after reading saustin's comment and threw it up on a reply lol.

In all seriousness though, the hobby has to have an effect on the type of intimacy afforded to a mate. You have to find an alpha male strong enough to be attracted to with a slight blend of cuckold to enable you to keep your job.

Otherwise, you get the guy that demands that you quit or the guy that demands you feed his fetish every day.

Or you find the guy that takes care of you long term (the wallet). There is security there, but are you ever really happy?

Tough choices. Man, I thought being a single dad was hard lol.