Would You Date A Hobbyist/Provider?

Nope. Had the chance once, she made the move to let me know she was interested in me outside the hobby, and I couldn't do it. I know I couldn't do it with her still providing, and I'm not sure I could deal with knowing the past.

Really? I wonder...it's easy to say that. But if you were to read a review of some hot girl really enjoying your provider BF, describing how she thought he was really "into it" and enjoying it - without you...I think you might find it a bit harder to be so egalitarian.

It is a noble thought though. Originally Posted by FootLong

This is exactly why I am not sure I could handle it. I don't think anyone that has not been there can be sure.

Over the years, I have had friends have relationships that I always figured would fail. After 20+ years, some are still with the same person. So you never really know.

One friend married a provider, although he didn't know it at the time. He bailed on her, but she ended up marrying someone else who knew what she did. Married for 10+ years before he died.

Other friends have abusive wives, or themselves are drinkers, womanizers, or abusers. And again, they have been married for many years.

Love is blind, and tolerant to a point.

I say go for it, because you will have regrets if you don't.

A favorite quote of mine is " You can never fail until you try"

Sure --- but like has been said -- i want to know details -- possibly sometimes join or at least watch

But I would also continue in the hobby

A favorite quote of mine is " You can never fail until you try"

...or learn! Awesome quote!!

I agree Nikki that is a great quote!

Ummmm
Not no bit FUCK NO...
If I'm in a serious relationship I expect my girl to be monogamous as will I!
( except my current marriage).
But in reality it is a nice fantasy , but I think my jealousy would flare up knowing her past or current sexcapades....
I'm a well to do guy and I've had my share of sugar babies.. Other than the sex those relations are way over rated.

I think maintaining that kind of relationship...and continuing to provide and hobby... takes a level of maturity or patience and understanding that most couples never reach.......

To each their own...and much luck and happiness for those who are willing to make a go of it!!

What about being married and dating a provider? Isn't it the same. I mean how could you get mad if a provider continues to work and you are married. I think its a good situation if you are real cool with one. I need a real friend of a provider. If interested ladies hit me up.

have you ever been so into somebody that you recoil when a different person touches you.......if you have not, maybe you could be in a serious relationship with a provider

McD,

I'm not cognizant of your point.

Dogg

Not judging but take care of your kids, school, and job first. You have plenty of time for your love life. I highly doubt the guy is going to admit this. Originally Posted by sixxbach

Couldn't agree more. When I became a mommy, all this shit went out the window. Lol. I'll focus on my love life later on when I know the rest is squared away.

The true test is if you are seeing him for free

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Yuppers.

Haley, everyone is entitled to their opinions, but in your case...you continually post things that have no relevance on the OPs thread. [/I]

And, it really doesn't matter how you try to defend yourself...when the OP tells you she doesn't appreciate you posting irrelevant info on HER thread...it would be best to simply apologize. You just don't seem to get that.

These girls feel like you're constantly trying to post some negative things about them...it's like you're throwing them under them bus every chance you get, for no reason. I doubt you would appreciate having that done to you!
Originally Posted by Likinikki

I second this. God, I just love a woman who defends and protects her girlfriends. So hot I say.