Providers that ARE NOT reference friendly

No screening is 100% safe, unfortunately. A few years back, I had a provider intentionally set me up by giving a reference for a member of law enforcement. Fortunately, I fought the charge and got it dismissed, but the arrest record lives forever.

From that point, provider references have become a much smaller part of my process-- and only a few ladies are considered to be someone I'll take a reference from.

However, despite not seeking references anymore-- I still freely give them to others as a courtesy to my clientele. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

That's awful and I'm sorry it happened.

They're a far cry better for you guys-- but not necessarily for us.

Alternative screening methods have never failed me. Provider references have. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

I understand how you would think that. However, police agencies can fake alternative screening too.

It sounds like they got a girl in a really bad bind(probably more than just slinging pussy) and convinced her to cooperate to lessen her punishment.

In my case? No-- it was a girl who sought me out intentionally. Not every female plays nice, nor fair.

In my case? No-- it was a girl who sought me out intentionally. Not every female plays nice, nor fair. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Is she or was she on this site? Handle?

She's a former. Long gone. Guested and from what I know.. out of the business entirely now.

How long was she in the biz when she pulled that stunt?

She's a former. Long gone. Guested and from what I know.. out of the business entirely now. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

THN?

Hell no.. I was on good terms with THN. This is considerably further back.

How do you women deal with pussy blockers? You send a request that client X is wanting to see you, she then contacts client X and sets up her own a hot session, I'm sure it happens

This screening is not 100% safe, what if the guy went crazy or decided not to pay for the session the night before? Would there be backlash for the provider that said it was OK? Originally Posted by BLM69

In the rare case a guy was really difficult, demanding, or even went so far as to short me, or cancel on multiple occasions, I will let the providers know who he has used as a reference. We also have infoshare and verifyhim which can both damage his ability to get future references.

I'm freaking great, how's your week/month going? How them tricks treating you? Originally Posted by BLM69

I'm doing good babe. Thanks for asking!

I see that Jules must've twisted one hell of a hair up your ass though Bro.

Your rebuttals make you seem like a whiny little b*tch. IJS.

I'm doing good babe. Thanks for asking!

I see that Jules must've twisted one hell of a hair up your ass though Bro.

Your rebuttals make you seem like a whiny little b*tch. IJS. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

A bitch I'm not but it was a just a response to a previous jab in this thread, I'm good and done as long as she's done there's no need for further drama.

You women have it all wrong if you believe what's posted on this site affects me in any way, I don't work here and still fuck anyone I choose without any issues and with open arms, I'm just tricking like every other guy here.

There has to be a better way to screen, other than using prior providers. Someone like me who is in a great relationship, and doesn't hobby but 1-2 times a year (getting what the wife won't do). It's hard to go back and say yah I saw her 8 months ago. But I refuse to see low quality just to get a reference. I've offered my DL, work contact ect. I understand the ladies need to be careful... especially after reading those crazy alerts. Originally Posted by Chrisgang30

Use your SO as a reference.

I have tried to use girls as references and they get pissed off because I am not seeing them, hell some have even stopped seeing me because of it. That is some bullshit

And I am ALWAYS happy to provide a reference for someone. However, if it is over a year I simply let the lady know that. Lots can change in time. If he was a gentleman and all the good stuff that goes with that I let her know that as well. She can choose to take it for what it is worth. Originally Posted by Spikebaby

I'm sorry you are seeing girls that are like that.
I think in a way, us girls need to be reference friendly in order to have repeat biz and to keep up our reputations.

I think the point of this thread is to name names or handles that are or are not good to rely on.

I just would make sure you update who you use as a reference, even if you didn't think the newer girl was all that and a bag of chips. Or maybe she looks like she eats too many chips.

I have tried to use girls as references and they get pissed off because I am not seeing them, hell some have even stopped seeing me because of it. That is some bullshit Originally Posted by TheBradGuy

After a session with me the ladies are happy to refer me to other ladies ...