Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

Ms PK, I do apologize. I read my post and I should of clarified that Laz is the type of hobbyist you described not the hobbyist you were describing.

Sonya, I know you have no problems from Laz. Never said anything different.

Darci, you allow hobbyists into your personal life, and if you r happy, I am happy for you. I know a few hobbyist with whom you are friends with, and they adore you.
I prefer to keep my personal life seperate from hobby. . My friends dont gossip about me to people I do not know. We seem to have different expectations of friends.

Karla aka dancing Pirate you can dance on my lap anytime. BTW, I also pay to play if you are open to a session with a woman.

Johnny- You have nothing to worry about. You convinced me you are 1 of the good guys in the hobby. Unfortunately you are not the majority.

LAZ, you rented me a house for $1050 that you knew I and another lady would be using as an incal.
You took my money and made promises you did not keep.
You were hoping for a personal relationship, and when I told you that would never happen and that because you were going to b my landlord I would not even see you for pay you got mad did not keep your part of our agreement.
You took my money, never got a lease and you gave me a house that did not have a usable bathroom, broken locks, half painted, no bedroom doors, no heat, used syringes in bathroom drawers...... I had to call the police because you refuse to put keyless locks on doors and you felt you could come into the house when you wanted.
I was unable to make money because of the condition of the house.

You also tried to scam me on a business deal.

You used the hobby/socials to befriend a provider and try to get a girlfriend by offering her a house that she could rent to own without income verification issues.

Now I have to go to court and tell the judge I am an escort, blah, blah, blah.
NOT FUCKING COOL LAZ

Whisp-why am I having to defend myself on a thread about hobbyist time wasters???? and people wonder why ladies dont report problems.....

Not cool bringing up personal dealings between you two.
I ask myself if you have known Laz for so long as you say and knew how he was, why enter in business dealings with the guy?????

This whole thread is a disaster...

Whisp-why am I having to defend myself on a thread about hobbyist time wasters???? and people wonder why ladies dont report problems.....

Everyone has the right to defend themselves; the accused and accuser. Doesnt matter if its a provider or hobbyist who gets accused of wrongdoing. Just because someone is accused of something doesn't necessarily make it true. A thread gets started accusing someone of this or that; the accused replies to it with their side of the story and after both sides have said their peace, thread is closed and others decide for themselves who they believe.

Now that both parties have expressed their point of view, time to move on to the next time-waster or close this thread.

I accept your apology!!!

Ok, I agree.
I dont see where LAZ explained why he wasted my time taking me to dinner if he did not want to have a session.

Instead I am told I should have to tell a hobbyist that ccontacts me that he has to pay me??? Guess I am lucky he paid for dinner?

I see ladies that agree Laz likes to hang out with providers for free.

Thread was about time wasters. I stated who wasted my time.

Everyone has the right to defend themselves; the accused and accuser. Doesnt matter if its a provider or hobbyist who gets accused of wrongdoing. Just because someone is accused of something doesn't necessarily make it true. A thread gets started accusing someone of this or that; the accused replies to it with their side of the story and after both sides have said their peace, thread is closed and others decide for themselves who they believe.

Now that both parties have expressed their point of view, time to move on to the next time-waster or close this thread. Originally Posted by gooose

I accept your apology!!! Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

It would be more sincere in person....

Now that both parties have expressed their point of view, time to move on to the next time-waster or close this thread. Originally Posted by gooose

no fucking way. its all way too entertaining and long overdue - well most of it at least.

onward with cultural revolution!

Laz and Francisca, would you be interested in going on Judge Judy? If so, PM me.

I know you meant no harm!!
Probably just riled up in the moment
it happens!!!

Not cool bringing up personal dealings between you two.
I ask myself if you have known Laz for so long as you say and knew how he was, why enter in business dealings with the guy?????

This whole thread is a disaster... Originally Posted by canyonman

I did not enter into business, I almost did but was able to back out in time.
I knew him as a hobbyist that was at socials. I never said I knew him on a personal basis. During a conversation at a social I commented I have always wanted a restaurant. He used that a year later.

After the "date" in mid to late August I did not respond to anymore of his texts, calls or emails.
Sept 29th he contacted me telling me he had a restaurant if I was interested..... our personal relationship lasted 1 month (3 weeks maybe)
Restaurant a house, my dumb ass got excited n it took a few weeks for me to realize I fucked up royally.

Laz and Francisca, would you be interested in going on Judge Judy? If so, PM me. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Going to see Judge on the 17th.... want to watch? pm me

"Darci, you allow hobbyists into your personal life, and if you r happy, I am happy for you. I know a few hobbyist with whom you are friends with, and they adore you.
I prefer to keep my personal life seperate from hobby. . My friends dont gossip about me to people I do not know. We seem to have different expectations of friends."

Im not saying all my friends gossip, I mean many people on the boards gossip. And so, are you saying in all your years of providing, you have never ever made a friend? And, if you kept your personal life separate from the hobby, why rent from someone on the board?

"LAZ, you rented me a house for $1050 that you knew I and another lady would be using as an incal.
You took my money and made promises you did not keep.
You were hoping for a personal relationship, and when I told you that would never happen and that because you were going to b my landlord I would not even see you for pay you got mad did not keep your part of our agreement."

All I can say about this is that I remember Laz talking and talking about a house he was going to buy so that he could rent it out to someone and have some income coming in. This was before you moved in. He was excited about getting paid every month by whoever the tenant would be. So, I can't see why he would risk some relationship drama over getting his money. He surely does not have money to be throwing away, he needed that rent money to be coming in. I also remember asking him a while back, before you guys were on the outs about if it would be used as an incall. It did not seem to me, like that's what was going to happen right away, especially with another provider. He mentioned something about a little house outback, but that was all. Or, that's what I understood. So where is this provider? Does she also have issues with Laz?

"I was unable to make money because of the condition of the house." This was the condition it was in from the beginning, that you knew about, no?

"Now I have to go to court and tell the judge I am an escort, blah, blah, blah."
NOT FUCKING COOL LAZ No one says you have to say that to the judge, if you guys are having problems, all you have to do is move out. Why make more drama?

"Whisp-why am I having to defend myself on a thread about hobbyist time wasters???? and people wonder why ladies dont report problems....."
I think you guys wasted each others time. Each for not being clear on things you should have been clear of from the start. In a way, you are both to blame for this house mess.

And those are Judge Darcy's thoughts on the matter. Although, I was not there, so maybe we should strike this whole thing from the record on the grounds that much of it is hearsay. :P Or something like that!

I OBJECT!... To the pink font

Just kidding... I have no issues with color fonts!!

I OBJECT!... To the pink font

Just kidding... I have no issues with color fonts!! Originally Posted by Netx9

Hey now! You are lucky I unbolded my pink! :P

Going to see Judge on the 17th.... want to watch? pm me Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

WOW!! I have not seen you since the hollowinnie bet you had a hang over..Didn't get a chance to chat with you you hurried out so fast..But glad your back..Sorry to hear about all the drama..Been there done that But anyway back on topic..I have met Laz not BCD yet I'm sure I will soon..Or Not I know one thing there is 2 sides to the drama..And we have to choose side or just move on I say just move on..Just a suggestion might need to move back to A-Town if you need help I'm sure I could talk to the SO and he would take time and fly in from Okl City for a day and help you like we helped you move all your stuff down here from A-Town just a few months ago just let me know gurl I'm there for you..Back on topic Laz in my book I look at who is involved with the drama and who cums to bat for who like me I have a lot that has spoke up and I have a lot who has chose to stay out of the drama and who can blame them I have no drama don't want no drama and will not be around drama me I seem to be a drama magnet So back on topic Laz In my book if Sonya says he's good to go I tend to lean towards those who don't say or post a lot but when they have something to say I listen and so does a lot of other peeps so I sure hope things work out.. She has more class than anyone on this board ..Any way call me gurl we can do lunch ..Karma is a bit#H..Hey got to go pimps raising hell because I wasting time .....P.S. Sorry to hear the incall didn't workout .
I do have a very safe and Sexy Incall{Over By Them Boots}Luv ya gurl