KD ... if you are still reading this thread (I really hope not for your sake!):
KD: "Maybe im getting to worked up." YEP!
KD: "What is the best way to handle a situation where ECCIE is getting held against you?" IGNORE!*
*Did you get laid before you ever knew about ECCIE? (rhetorical question ... meaning not for you to answer out loud).
*Did guys want to fuck you before you ever knew about ECCIE?
(another rhetorical question)
I hope the answers to both are "yes" ....