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Question for Providers - Does ECCIE provide you with the information you need to verify that a guy that has been her a while, has reviews posted for ECCIE providers? Originally Posted by travelerman

No it does not.
Ive "attempted" to screen a guy by his reviews.....and it was VERY time consuming (and frustrating).
Why? A lot of reviews were amps, sc, & bp ladies. The ladies that were indy, had special characters in their name & the gent didnt spell the name correctly and/or failed to put a link to the ladys profile/website/p411, some of the ladies had changed their name...and it just goes on.
I think its courteous for a gent to provide the info requested. (We ask for a reason )
It also allows for prompt screening.
Which do you think will get you greater success to play very naughty with a lady...
Sending a her on a wild goose hunt to "find" your refs or you sending a pm w them included

Now if your concerns are *not* about busting a huge one i have no advice :-X lol

Ok then, here's one for you. I contact a beauty thats new (less then a year), she's needing my references. So I give her the name of one or two beauties, including you, and she cks em out. So now what I've done is somehow "validated" her in a very strange sort of way. She's using my name with you, an established beauty, and my name, an established player, with her name, in one breath. She's the newbie, you and I have been established long ago, and she all of suden is cking me out? And in the process we (both of us), are lending her our credibility. I think if I contact a lady and ask for an appointment, and Im a recognized player (which should be assertained by the playee), with reviews and P411 OK's, then I should not be "blown off" for making "incomplete contact. Do not players ck you out first? Imagine a review that come back on you that says "yeah, she's a scam. She din't mention she' an AA" Not possible right? He hopefully did his homework "before hand". So I would hope a provider would take a peek at the requestee before just ignoring the whole matter. Anyway, I'm rambling and Im probably just wasting everyones time. Funny, when I think of it, I rarely set up anything with a lesser know provider. Now I understand why.

Not an ISO request but a rant.

Moved to the proper forum.

Also, she makes a very good point. I cannot count the number of times I have read or heard about guys who simply are unable or unwilling to follow the simple instructions that are clearly laid out for them when contacting a provider for a visit.

Gentlemen===> swallow your pride and egos!!

I have to agree with Nena and others and quite simply ==> either follow and provide what is requested or excuse yourself nicely and move on.....

.....plus the way some folks change their handles and other things around here ===> sometimes its hard to tell who in the Hell you saw to use any way!!

Jungle Jack you understand I could not get there.

Ms Pritti in my commet I was talking about ECCIE reviews not BP or any other site

Well when all is said and done, the point is valid. Provide some information so as not to delay the process. I just always thought that when I threw my name on the table for an appointment everyone in the room went "aaaaahhhh, Junglejack". Lets get on this right away.

ISO A Gent That Isn't A Rule Breaker!!!!

When trying to book an appointment with us please provide all necessary information. Your references if you have any. If you don't please state that. Your contact info, Phone number, email address, Date check Id, P411 Info, TER info. Time and Date you are looking to meet up. If you are wanting IN or OUT. If you are not sure what the Provider needs ask her, as we all screen differently. It is time consuming to screen and we are trying very hard to get back to you in a timely fashion but if you do not provide information in the first PM it slows the process down to turtle speed.

As well when you send us stupid Pm's asking us dumb questions that are clearly on our ads that wastes my time. Take the time to do your homework about your provider with reviews she has. Ask fellow members in the men's locker room. If you just say "Hey are you available" without introducing yourself or sending Proper info it's like you aren't serious about meeting and you are wasting my time.
Sorry if I sound mean or blunt it's just irritating. I work at the Sugar Factory but I am not a Sugar Coater Thanks for all of your time, And don't forget to VOTE!!!!
Vinny

If this is you I'm ISO YOU!!!!!! Originally Posted by 82Vinny

While I empathize with your frustrations in having to deal with "dumb questions", Vinny, sometimes, it's not entirely our fault.
I distinctly recall seeing a providers showcase where it clearly stated that their availability was Monday-Saturday 10-9
only to receive a "I'm sorry, I stop at 7", in reply to my appointment request.
Heh! I guess that "dumb knife" cuts both ways.
I'm just saying that it's not always our fault...most of the time, sure, just not always.

-What about for those who have already submitted this information and have been
'pre-screened'; are you requesting they re-submit their information as well?



Each provider is certainly welcome to request whatever she desires and schedule her appointments as she sees fit.
I'm not arguing that point in any way, shape, or form. I'm simply trying to determine what's expected of us
so as to avoid being cut by the 'dumb knife'.

(and keep your replies to yourselves, smart-asses. I know what you're going to say....so just don't. Lmao!)

Regards,
SofaKingFun ...dumber than a sack of mud
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Ok then, here's one for you. I contact a beauty thats new (less then a year), she's needing my references. So I give her the name of one or two beauties, including you, and she cks em out. So now what I've done is somehow "validated" her in a very strange sort of way.
yes, i agree
She's using my name with you, an established beauty, and my name, an established player, with her name, in one breath. She's the newbie, you and I have been established long ago, and she all of suden is cking me out?
of course she has to check you out. Its called screening (should she *not* verify you, bc *shes* the newbie? O_o ....random question And in the process we (both of us), are lending her our credibility.
that part i dont follow. Yes, she may accept or not accept my word. But in no way am i vouching or making *her* a credible provider
I think if I contact a lady and ask for an appointment, and Im a recognized player (which should be assertained by the playee), with reviews and P411 OK's, then I should not be "blown off" for making "incomplete contact.
i do not blow off folks for making "incomplete" contact. I *do* blow off (well scratch that...they dont get blown by me but i have started to ignore those that pm me & say something along the lines of "i saw your ad, i dont have any refs, can we meet?" Its quite clear in my ads i ask for refs. Idk what to say to that. I can not help them i used to reply "lets meet up when you have refs" ...but i just quit replting.Do not players ck you out first? Imagine a review that come back on you that says "yeah, she's a scam. She din't mention she' an AA" Not possible right? He hopefully did his homework "before hand". So I would hope a provider would take a peek at the requestee before just ignoring the whole matter.
in a perfect world, i understand. Unfortunately, there isnt a rule book on provider etiquette, safety, screening, health, finances...nor is there an education requirement. So ladies are gonna do however they see fit. But i totally agree with you. When a gent wants to meet...i check their refs, posts, and reviews for the types of services listed....so i have an idea of what he likes & to make *our* time more enjoyable together Anyway, I'm rambling and Im probably just wasting everyones time. Funny, when I think of it, I rarely set up anything with a lesser know provider.
yup! Thats the best way to go!! Now I understand why. Originally Posted by JungleJack

sorry vinny....just wanted to answer the one question. Didnt mean to take over i promise you can spank me if youd like

Never ever give out your P411 ID! Send it in the prescreen form or request appointment form. A provider that is not on the P411 system will not benefit from this information unless she is up to no good.

Eccie is a community board. It can assist in the screening process. You can get a good idea on some one. As a hobbyist, I would never give a phone number out if it is not advertised. I expect the same from the provider. I have passed on a provider because they have asked of such imformation and they have passed on me for not giving. Do I care? Fuck no! My securaty, my fellow hobbiesst and the lady's that I have seen are important to me.

Lol I sometimes make this mistake hehe with my schedule I have to be spontaneous and so I honestly forget to read or I never look at the adds ill just read a quick review and send a pm.. Some don't respond some do and I just take it from their. Honestly it's up to the provider to do her own leg work it's for her safety. Yes we can make it easier but sometimes time is a factor and some ladies want blood type, when you piss, lol I'm not one to book ahead of time only because I have one crazy schedule ill never be able to keep an app. Their is no easy way to screen and it'll never be a simple process it's part of the game.

The ladies need to remember the fucktards are usually reading the ads and websites with only one hand. Its really not their fault they mess up an appointment request when reading comprehension is lessened by reading with one hand.

Now one of the dumbest things I have ever heard is screening by reading a tard's reviews. Or screening a tard by is icky persona. Screen or not, just do it right.

Now if the ladies would post some taint ...

Hmmmmmmmmmm………..Well firstly, and maybe lastly, its nice to see that my main intention was certainly close to being met. And by the way, if it hadn’t, I would have personally taken steps to persuade a very valued poster (hobbyist) to participate in this otherwise stimulating and provocative dialogue. Having said that, thank you SFK for joining the conversation. I’m sure it was partly due to “the man in black” moving the subject matter from the ISO (where it most assuredly deserved to be) to here. Thank you “man in black”. Now I’m not discounting the possibility that SFK, seeing a previous thread about a certain “ball-slapping” nicety, might have wanted to step up and engage the general populace on this most intriguing matter, screening. However; knowing that this is so far a BCD matter, I doubt this was the reason. That leaves me. That’s right me.
Glad to see your post SFK. Now, get off the Prozac type respose and say what you really mean.
Prittykitti…………..you’re to (so) HOT (and Smart)!

..if it isn't my long-lost compadre Jack of Jungle fame. How the hell are ya', stranger?

While I will certainly admit to being a little slower than most, I thinck that three-sides summed it up best with this little nugget of brilliance...

"Now if the ladies would post some taint ..."

.Wurd!

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SKF...agree with you, sometimes, it is a provider's fault for some things...but, what Vinny's talking about are the newbie hobbyists that send us things like...

hey, whats up...i wanna see you
you available
ive read ur reviews...hit me up
can i see you in 10mins
i wanna see you but do you offer greek
hey, asians r known to like greek...wanna see you if you do

This thread isn't directed toward most of you gents...primarily, to newbies or those who think they're ENTITLED. Reviews that are listed on a profile...doesn't necessarily make a hobbyist REPUTABLE to meet.

If your reviews are with newbie providers...or just BP/SPA/SWs...they aren't necessariy accepted as reliable references. This is why it is IMPORTANT to read what a provider requires for screening.

Unfortunately, there have been many longtime hobbyists...who have ripped off providers...been rude...or turned stalkers, so being a longtime hobbyist DOES NOT make one reputable. Just like some providers...just because they've been around for years...doesn't make them reliable either!

Oh...had to edit...JUNGLE JACK is kool though...Hi Jack!! (lol)

Unfortunately, there have been many longtime hobbyists...who have ripped off providers...been rude...or turned stalkers, so being a longtime hobbyist DOES NOT make one reputable. Just like some providers...just because they've been around for years...doesn't make them reliable either!

Exactly!!!