Appropriate attire

algrace's Avatar
Think it be time for a hay ride and picking some wild flowers I got a spot way back in the woods we can go to darling Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl
A romp in the hay with sweet.countrygirl - sounds fitting

Have fun, wear flannel and be safe!
I love a guy fresh from work in a suit and tie.....I love to unwrap him like a precious gift....

but! also......casual Fridays....jeans and a dress shirt and sport coat....OMG
and I love nice jeans and a semi tight white or black tshirt

and please! pretty please!!! a bit of cologne!!
Helicopter206's Avatar
Jean Shorts, wife beater, and flip flops.
When I go to the hotels off I-70 (49)
I fit right in...
I agree .. great answer.. and if a Gent/Lady is working or too busy that day to clean yourself up before the meeting.. I would try and have a place where he/she can shower,shave etc.
I treat all my encounters like a first date with a hot girl that I want to impress,(Freshly showered,shaved and trimmed where need be, dress nice,fresh breath, etc.) because I may want to see them again. I want the lady to feel the same way. PS a suit at a motel 6 maybe not but I will still dress nice but a suit at a nicer hotel no problem.PS just take the jacket and tie off if you are uncomfortable. Originally Posted by hairyhoudini
Show up dressed like Tom Cruise in Risky Business.

Lol! Hell, I don't care what you wear. Just be relaxed and act natural and what you wear won't really matter.
Topgun007's Avatar
I agree
Misawahawk's Avatar
I just make sure I've showered, brushed my teeth, and smell good. As long as the clothes are clean it doesn't matter what you wear.
KCSmutMonkey's Avatar
I just make sure I've showered, brushed my teeth, and smell good. As long as the clothes are clean it doesn't matter what you wear. Originally Posted by Misawahawk
^^^THIS^^^

They are just going to be piled up on the floor anyways. Though trying not to look too out of place can be helpful.
JD Barleycorn's Avatar
I would think that you don't have to define normal dress but maybe you do. No fetish wear of course. It kind of depends of the meeting place. Polo shirt or button down shirt, no cut offs, slacks, blue jeans. I always carry a prop with me. A notebook, a book, something you would carry when you go back to YOUR room for some sleep. I took an artist sketchbook one time in the middle of the day. You know, the tourist out sketching KC.


Not so good...................gay, good cover........better..........b etter still.............pretty good
Whizman's Avatar
Think it be time for a hay ride and picking some wild flowers I got a spot way back in the woods we can go to darling Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl
Where did I put those spurs?
KCSmutMonkey's Avatar
Think it be time for a hay ride and picking some wild flowers I got a spot way back in the woods we can go to darling Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl
Wow, no shit, lead the way!!
I would say wear what gives you the most confidence, and be unique. Do something that sets you apart from the rest. I like a man who says hey, this is me. I'm myself, and I hope you like. I think it would be hard to have confidence with sweaty balls, out of breath, rude, smelly breath, etc. I think it is within reason to take the first five minutes together calming down and moving to a different place mentally, slowing down and rinsing off the necessary areas, doing whatever it is you can possibly think of to increase your confidence level. If you're comfortable and happy in sweat pants, well dammit wear the darned sweat pants. To me, confidence is sexy no matter how you dissect it. Wear a suit and tie. Wear a cowboy hat with boots and a huge buckle. Wear golf shorts with a golf shirt and hat. Wear your dirty clothes from mowing the lawn. For me, the best thing a guy can do is smell good, taste good, and have a smile on his face. Walk in like you're the king. That's what I love incredibly. Once ready.... Smile, and then let your guard down.
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I had a client come in looking simlair first guy (a little more biker look than stoner tho lol) and I was in a 3.5-star hotel....thankfully it was a pretty big hotel because any other place or smaller hotel I think he would've been watched (maybe stopped). He looked REALLY out of place lol. He did have a few bags of goodies tho and it was a slightly late night appt so then again he could've passed for like he was just turning in for the night.


I would think that you don't have to define normal dress but maybe you do. No fetish wear of course. It kind of depends of the meeting place. Polo shirt or button down shirt, no cut offs, slacks, blue jeans. I always carry a prop with me. A notebook, a book, something you would carry when you go back to YOUR room for some sleep. I took an artist sketchbook one time in the middle of the day. You know, the tourist out sketching KC.


Not so good...................gay, good cover........better..........b etter still.............pretty good Originally Posted by JD Barleycorn
I've walked into a casino on an outcall one night wearing my hat, leather coat, and boots it was stormy raining cats and dogs so it was 2nd nature when I hear the thunder but I walked in and I fitted right in with a bunch of people there lol it really isn't just the clothes you wear it's also how you present yourself
And you presented yourself very well that night, lovely lady. I remember it well!

I've walked into a casino on an outcall one night wearing my hat, leather coat, and boots it was stormy raining cats and dogs so it was 2nd nature when I hear the thunder but I walked in and I fitted right in with a bunch of people there lol it really isn't just the clothes you wear it's also how you present yourself Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl