You scheduled an appointment, have a session and then you find out you were with a man....

If you saw a girl that was totally hot, had a session with her that was totally hot, and left feeling totally satisfied....then found out later she was once a 'he'...what is the problem? What is your concern? I must be missing a point somewhere...

Originally Posted by FootLong

So say you go to a restaurant, order chilli, it's totally hot, you leave feeling totally satisfied, then find out afterwards someone shit in it...

Problem?

Curious...have any of you men ever used a "toy" pussy? Pocket pussies I believe I remember them being called? Or maybe even a blow up doll?
It's "fake" but you still don't mind putting your joy stick in there, correct?
If it looks like, feels like, acts like and has the equipment of a woman...why question the DNA?
I understand with most, it is purely a mental thing. If you NEVER KNEW that this person used to be a guy, then there would be NO problem whatsoever.
For example...I had dinner with a family a few years back. They cooked a cow's head. I'm fixing tacos, eating them, and COMPLETELY enjoying my meal...until someone comes up and says "Hey, are you enjoying the cow brains?" HA! The instant I KNEW what I was eating...I wanted to gag. However, beforehand I was really enjoying those tacos.

With that said, I agree that COMPLETE HONESTY is the best way to go. Because it is up to the gentleman that is donating to a lady/TS/whatever to get exactly what he wants. Regardless of whether you look like, act like, taste like, feel like or have the equipment of what he wants, he should know EXACTLY what he's getting.

I may be missing something because I'm dense! SL - have you personally had experience with a post OP TS that didn't state upfront she was TS????!!!!!!!!!

I may be missing something because I'm dense! SL - have you personally had experience with a post OP TS that didn't state upfront she was TS????!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by Louigi

Not to my knowledge I have NOT. Nor have I eaten green eggs and ham either.

Curious...have any of you men ever used a "toy" pussy? Pocket pussies I believe I remember them being called? Or maybe even a blow up doll?
It's "fake" but you still don't mind putting your joy stick in there, correct?
If it looks like, feels like, acts like and has the equipment of a woman...why question the DNA?
I understand with most, it is purely a mental thing. If you NEVER KNEW that this person used to be a guy, then there would be NO problem whatsoever.
For example...I had dinner with a family a few years back. They cooked a cow's head. I'm fixing tacos, eating them, and COMPLETELY enjoying my meal...until someone comes up and says "Hey, are you enjoying the cow brains?" HA! The instant I KNEW what I was eating...I wanted to gag. However, beforehand I was really enjoying those tacos.

With that said, I agree that COMPLETE HONESTY is the best way to go. Because it is up to the gentleman that is donating to a lady/TS/whatever to get exactly what he wants. Regardless of whether you look like, act like, taste like, feel like or have the equipment of what he wants, he should know EXACTLY what he's getting. Originally Posted by SweetCara

The issue is NOT the feeling you get from the act. Example: I love blow jobs. Always have. As a matter of fact the worst one I ever got was fanfuckingtastic. I won't argue that point. But I have the "right" to choose who I get one from whether it be blonde, brunette, red head, big girl, spinner, Hispanic, white, black, green, purple, male, female, 20 years old, 40 years old, 50 years old or a 80 year old toothless suck machine. And nobody has the right to tell me what my preferences should be no more than I tell them theirs.

For you ladies that think I'm wrong... if a guy paid you in fake money would that be OK? YOU expected to be paid in REAL money. Not fake money. But it looks just like the real stuff what's the problem?

+1 FULL-DISCLOSURE

I also think there should be full disclosure on whether or not a provider is INDY or MANAGED!

I also think a provider should disclose if the circus is in town, not just pop a diaphragm in and hope for the best.

I also think a provider should disclose that when you show up she will be drunk or higher than a truck full of Hispanics at a Los Lobos concert.

I also think a provider should disclose if she plans on having someone else at the incall location including a fellow provider, pimp or pet.


And if you don't then I'll be playing this on my iphone as I'm hauling ass.

No problem with disclosure! My problem is why the fuck are you seeming to attack a specific person for failing to disclose when she clearly and plainly states she's post OP TS in her showcase and ads. Maybe it's arrogance ignorance or just plain stupidity!

Do I need to comeback to my Monopoly money example? Is it ok to you if a guy pays you with counterfeit money? I mean after all it looks like it and feels like it. Again I think the key to success in this hobby trying to be as honest as possible for both sides, I know this is extremely difficult but at the end of the day if I'm paying for woman I expect to get woman not some dickless guy. Just my 2 cts

I also think there should be full disclosure on whether or not a provider is INDY or MANAGED!

I also think a provider should disclose if the circus is in town, not just pop a diaphragm in and hope for the best.

I also think a provider should disclose that when you show up she will be drunk or higher than a truck full of Hispanics at a Los Lobos concert.

I also think a provider should disclose if she plans on having someone else at the incall location including a fellow provider, pimp or pet.


And if you don't then I'll be playing this on my iphone as I'm hauling ass.

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Hahahaha you got that right

No problem with disclosure! My problem is why the fuck are you seeming to attack a specific person for failing to disclose when she clearly and plainly states she's post OP TS in her showcase and ads. Maybe it's arrogance ignorance or just plain stupidity! Originally Posted by Louigi

I'll assume your comment was directed at me in the absence of using your quote button. Exactly how am I attacking anyone?

It should be disclosed if a provider is a TS period. People have the right to choose who they are with. There is a very big risk of someone getting hurt or worse by not being up front about something like this. Originally Posted by Joe Buck

I agree with you Joe Buck... Has anyone seen the movie "Boys Don't Cry."

First off, very sad movie and no one deserves that. It does go to show exactly what kind of shit you can (heaven forbid) get into if you "fool" the wrong person and they get word of it... All they would have to do in the hobby is try to keep their cool and schedule another session with you.

I asked a few guys (personal friends of mine and some that are in the hobby) what they would do if they slept with a "girl" that was really a guy but had their "outie" surgically removed and turned into an "innie" due to whatever reasons given... All 13 of them said they would kick his ass... Some said worse but I don't wanna get into that.

I agree with you Joe Buck... Has anyone seen the movie "Boys Don't Cry."

First off, very sad movie and no one deserves that. It does go to show exactly what kind of shit you can (heaven forbid) get into if you "fool" the wrong person and they get word of it... All they would have to do in the hobby is try to keep their cool and schedule another session with you.

I asked a few guys (personal friends of mine and some that are in the hobby) what they would do if they slept with a "girl" that was really a guy but had their "outie" surgically removed and turned into an "innie" due to whatever reasons given... All 13 of them said they would kick his ass... Some said worse but I don't wanna get into that. Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

I have seen the movie Karla it is an amazing movie and yes it is sad!

As for what I would do if this happened to me... While I will say I have never been with nor do I plan on being with TS/TG person. If somehow I was with that type of person I honestly can say I don't know how I would react. None of us can really awnser that question until it happens. Of course there are plenty of "macho" guys on here as well as in the real world who can say they would "kick that guys ass" but you can't honestly say that until it actually happens to you. But what I will say is that it is sad that we still have people in this society that HATE and out of all the different communities out there you would think that this community here on ECCIE would be more tolerable than most since we are all a little different from what society would call normal. In the words of Nelson Mandela:

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”

Violence solves nothing and in most all cases you will regret it. If I were tricked into being with a man who is now a woman then I was tricked. Research, Research, Research. But I will say this.... hit a woman in front of me, hurt or abuse a child in front of me, or mistreat and animal and my fuse get as short as "DirtySecrets" dick.

But I will say this.... hit a woman in front of me, hurt or abuse a child in front of me, or mistreat and animal and my fuse get as short as "DirtySecrets" dick. Originally Posted by Still Looking

I may not agree with you most of the time SL but I do give you mad respect for this statement because I am the same way.