Ladies - as a client who loves DATY, I totally get that you want it done "right". But, after being with dozens of you, each one of you is deliciously different. While many of us guys have a "routine" that works most of the time, help us out with plenty of feedback. And non verbal feedback is great - tightening the thighs, thrusting your hips, your hand on the back of my head pushing me down harder, etc. And, when it is working and you want us to not stop, just whisper "Don't Stop". We don't always know when you are getting bored, or when it is really good and leading to a great climax. Gentle flicks, sucking and nibbling the clit, and long hard licks have all worked with different women to bring them over the edge.
And, the afterplay is important, too. Many of you are too sensitive to continue. Some of you do want to continue and see if we can quickly get another one. Others want to cool down slowly. But, especially if we are new to each other, give us feedback.
So, ladies, feedback to us is your best friend. Be honest and just let us know! The last thing we want is to change the stroke trying to bring you over the edge just when you are getting close and lose that orgasm.
Originally Posted by Woodford
Exactly -- that's the point I was trying to make, a couple of pages back. Ladies, it is idle to say "yes, I like it, but only if he does it right." There is no one single "right" way. You're all as different as snowflakes, and I don't mean slightly different -- I mean
completely different. The only way for a man to know how to eat you is if he's eaten you before. And even then, there's no guarantee, as I've known a couple of women who like one approach one time, but prefer something quite different next time, when they're in a different mood.
Bottom line: ladies, talk. Gentlemen, listen, and act on what you hear. "Let a thousand flowers bloom."
