Advice for first timer

Never take more cash than you are willing to spend and never go to the ATM. I also never pay the tab with a CC. I always tell the dancer how many dances up front. If I don't know the dancer and want to get a vibe I say two dances, then add if things go well. Tip the waitresses well and they will take care of you. Have fun!

Never take more cash than you are willing to spend and never go to the ATM. I also never pay the tab with a CC. I always tell the dancer how many dances up front. If I don't know the dancer and want to get a vibe I say two dances, then add if things go well. Tip the waitresses well and they will take care of you. Have fun! Originally Posted by Romostar

That's exactly why I never take my card inside, I can't be tempted if I don't have it on me and not going to pay a fee to use an ATM anyway

Long game, multiple adventures

Drink: have a strict budget and learn the rules of the game
Do not Drink: Play your best game

I hope the OP here comes back and gives us an update on how it went.

Ilww, wrt "These girls are literally incentivized to get you off because of money."

isn't it more like "These girls are literally incentivized to relieve you of as much money as they can" ??
or do they get bonuses for the amount of jizz on the carpets? :^}

Ilww, wrt "These girls are literally incentivized to get you off because of money."

isn't it more like "These girls are literally incentivized to relieve you of as much money as they can" ??
or do they get bonuses for the amount of jizz on the carpets? :^} Originally Posted by pmdelites

Pretty much all of the above.

The good ones have towels ready for clean up!

All good stuff! Took me many years and many failures to learn all this shit ! Just do not let you cock do the thinking and do not be afraid to say "no thank you". You be fine!

finally when you do get dances, don't let the girl start dancing as soon as sit down in the dance area.


Take control, let her know to wait until the next song.


Many of them dancers know the song that's on it's only 1 minute left and they try to start dancing and then count that as one $20 dance.


Originally Posted by CG2014

Yeah, after a several-years strip club hiatus I went to BDD over Christmas break and was painfully reminded of that rule.

Stripper: (in broken English after that final 1 minute was ending) "Want another one?"

Roaringfork: "We're done. Rip-off bitch."

There's an inchoate Venn diagram in my mind's eye right now involving the classes of strippers, sociopaths, women and migrants, but I'll let someone else organize and publish it...