The only way to have a friend is to be one.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Well if you're looking in the P4P industry for friends, I might suggest a different route. Originally Posted by London RayneAgree that looking for friends here is a bad choice. But the nature of the business, especially for longer dates with time to lie next to a naked lady and talk sometimes do lead to friendships upon repeat visits. I have made a few close friends here, as we have talked about before. But never when looking--friendship is like a watched pot.
I have found it odd/surprising to see some here, post the comment (more than once), that "Xxx (another board member) is my Best Friend"!!*I would imagine (hope) they are talking about someone they have been seeing for years and on a more exclusive basis. I could easily say Naomi and SNL are very close friends, but I don't see them often enough to know what they are like under pressure lol. The reverse is also true. Ask my parents how hard it is to be with me for a week ha ha.
I'm sure it's possible... but I have to wonder how many real trials and tribulations have they actually shared together? Originally Posted by MrGiz
Well if you're looking in the P4P industry for friends, I might suggest a different route. Though, I can say I am friends with the guys I see most often and would be there if they needed me in a way that had nothing to do with this, many women are not here for that. Once you leave, you're out of sight out of mind. That's not always a bad thing, and probably the main reason guys come here to begin with, so you really can't get all butt hurt over it.London, you don't give yourself enough credit. You have been helpful to someone you've never met before. You are that way. You'd be there for a lot of people.
Many men would die if a provider called them up and told them her boyfriend left her, and she just wanted to vent lol. They would probably tell her to go to the Powder Room or see a shrink...cuts both ways I guess.
I do hope you find what you need. Originally Posted by London Rayne
I would imagine (hope) they are talking about someone they have been seeing for years and on a more exclusive basis. I could easily say Naomi and SNL are very close friends, but I don't see them often enough to know what they are like under pressure lol. The reverse is also true. Ask my parents how hard it is to be with me for a week ha ha.Originally Posted by London Rayne
London, you don't give yourself enough credit. You have been helpful to someone you've never met before. You are that way. You'd be there for a lot of people. Originally Posted by buzzworm86London was the very first person that reached out to me when I first joined eccie. Sure some people thinks she's a biatch but she's a good hearted person and always willing to help anyone in need. She is my friend on and offline and I'm very glad I met her. Yes she doesn't give herself enough credit. When I need someone to talk to/laugh with/complain to, I call her and life is good again. She's like family to me.
Have you ever noticed that your everyones best friend as long as they need you. But when you just need to talk no one is their to listen Originally Posted by bigdaddy354369