Hello from a significant other.....the wife here and....

Well, struck out twice.

Perhaps third time is a charm. Have my sights set on someone, so keeping fingers crossed. Anniversary is coming up and what a better way than to celebrate with a beautiful woman!

For the two previous times, did you choose the lady? If so that may be the problem. Let him choose someone next time.

SO, it sounds like you're all over this and have received great advice, but I wanted to reiterate what might be obvious.

This sounds like you two are not amping up for multiple adventures, but instead are looking for a special experience. If so, I wanted to encourage you to not rush. You need to continue to take the time to best ensure you get what you're wanting.

Also, without breaking the bank, I suggest throwing a little money at it. Find the provider that's mature and empathetic enough to bring what you're looking for to the table. It really is worth the time. I really liked the idea of you meeting them first, as your requirements are more interpersonal. And I like having your hubby help you pick the contenders, as he will most likely be more visual.

Get the hotel room - totally agree - and get one with two beds and the couch. Trust me.

As the anticipation builds, don't rush. Stay patient. It doesn't have to be on your anniversay. You're on the right track. Hopefully the PMs have been good, too.

Good luck to you guys!!

Oh, and who cares if your husband has visited eccie before. There are a ton of people who visit, read and lurk-about without ever meeting a lovely provider. Him offering it to you doesn't mean a damn thang.

Just go to a strip club. A huge portion of those girls are bi. If you find one that is, you can probably get her all night for $200. She might be more into you than him, but that is part of the risk and the fun.

You could file this advice under "Grouchy Old Fhart," but it seems to me that you are either over engineering this somewhat or need to work harder in the HDH area.

For the two previous times, did you choose the lady? If so that may be the problem. Let him choose someone next time. Originally Posted by Blubba

Ha! Yeah, that actually might be the problem. But my husband wants me to do the 'grunt' work on this.

Sound advice about not rushing. It's just....we've been talking about this forever, so I guess I'm a bit anxious. I agree with taking my time, and I appreciate you reminding me of that.

I really appreciate your response. Everyone here is so kind. And yeah, I don't care if he's visited this site. When he found it he hollered, 'hey, come check out this site'.....he's not the cheating sort.

Thanks again for your response. Take care!!!

SO, it sounds like you're all over this and have received great advice, but I wanted to reiterate what might be obvious.

This sounds like you two are not amping up for multiple adventures, but instead are looking for a special experience. If so, I wanted to encourage you to not rush. You need to continue to take the time to best ensure you get what you're wanting.

Also, without breaking the bank, I suggest throwing a little money at it. Find the provider that's mature and empathetic enough to bring what you're looking for to the table. It really is worth the time. I really liked the idea of you meeting them first, as your requirements are more interpersonal. And I like having your hubby help you pick the contenders, as he will most likely be more visual.

Get the hotel room - totally agree - and get one with two beds and the couch. Trust me.

As the anticipation builds, don't rush. Stay patient. It doesn't have to be on your anniversay. You're on the right track. Hopefully the PMs have been good, too.

Good luck to you guys!!

Oh, and who cares if your husband has visited eccie before. There are a ton of people who visit, read and lurk-about without ever meeting a lovely provider. Him offering it to you doesn't mean a damn thang. Originally Posted by LoveNHorny

We tried that. Fell in love with a girl named Fancy, not once, but twice. Had a blast! But, it seemed like a bit too much hassle. Thought something might pan out, but really didn't have time for the game. Though I'll say, we'll be making another trip to the strip club soon, because it's a BLAST!!!

Just go to a strip club. A huge portion of those girls are bi. If you find one that is, you can probably get her all night for $200. She might be more into you than him, but that is part of the risk and the fun. Originally Posted by Red Tex

I might be 'over engineering this'....I'll agree.

Not sure what HDH means, lol.

Thank you for responding.

You could file this advice under "Grouchy Old Fhart," but it seems to me that you are either over engineering this somewhat or need to work harder in the HDH area. Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

Sorry, TSO, I forgot that you're a newb. HDH = High Dollar Hottie, i.e. ladies in the lower volume, higher price ($400+/hr and up rates, with 2 hr minimums, etc.) ranges - if that floats your boat. Your guy ought to appreciate the fact that you are trying to make this memorable and come off without a hitch.

Thank you for clarifying and point taken. I think you've nailed it on the head.

Contacting a certain HDH right now.

Thank you for the advice....it makes perfect sense now.

Sorry, TSO, I forgot that you're a newb. HDH = High Dollar Hottie, i.e. ladies in the lower volume, higher price ($400+/hr and up rates, with 2 hr minimums, etc.) ranges - if that floats your boat. Your guy ought to appreciate the fact that you are trying to make this memorable and come off without a hitch. Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

TSO,

The anticipation on this "date' is killing me! I hope it turns out to be everything you want, and PLEASE write an in-depth review when you're done. Best of luck on the third try, luv.

It's driving me crazy too. This will happen and i will leave a review that will impress you guys!!! Wish me luck as i contact a certain HDH.

TSO,

The anticipation on this "date' is killing me! I hope it turns out to be everything you want, and PLEASE write an in-depth review when you're done. Best of luck on the third try, luv. Originally Posted by topguntex

the anticipation is killing me! lol

TSO,

Surprised this had not been mentioned, is that you in the Avatar? Very nice!!