TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER

And I mite not be cheep But It's worth it... haha lol
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Tara

lol I never did anything like that.. Girl...And I don't remeber asking u.... Originally Posted by tara24

I wasn't referring to you at all! Where would you get that idea?

I wasn't referring to you at all! Where would you get that idea? Originally Posted by alluringava

LOL! Guilty conscience.

LOL! Guilty conscience. Originally Posted by Shayla

I was actually referring to someone we both know...the one who posted my legal name.

excellent taste and expensive taste and places...

excellent taste and expensive taste and places... Originally Posted by Charisma B

It's more than that I think. Good manners, respect, politeness, kindness, exceptional good looks ( well, putting yourself together really well), and to an extent, high prices, but you cannot BUY class. You either have it or you don't. Expensive things do not make an escort high class. I've known 150 dollar girls who had more class than some so-called 1000 dollar hookers. But staying in a nice place and having tasteful clothing helps. It just isn't the essence of what to me makes a classy, high-end provider.

I think also the true high-end escorts, the ones with the highest prices, are often not advertised anywhere. They're referred to wealthy men by word of mouth only. They're the girls you never see on any advertising site. Most of the 'high end' girls that claim to be are anything but. And in terms of class, I personally know an escort who claims to be high-class/high-end but is in fact anything but based on her behavior here on the board and in the past. She's a wannabe, to quote a friend here. Originally Posted by alluringava

True words...

I would not refer to anyone that has a homepage and is listed on the nternet as HDH. OTOH the women who do suck cock for money and do not advertise as escorts often look down on "real whores" like us.

I know a woman who is a tax accountant or something like that , sucks someones cock for 5000 euro a month (while being married and cheating) and sucking a few other cocks as well, and then looks down on real escorts because she refers to herself as "lover" and not as someone to be bought. But she is easier to get laid than any escort I know... If you have the style and the cash :.... bwahahahahaha....

Ladies and Gentlemen,
I want your thoughts and ideas on what you consider to be upscale and high class in a provider. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

I have been reading this thread for quite sometime, and chose to not chime in until now, as it is a bit of a conundrum when it comes to this type of discussion.

The root words of class are classification and to classify, but a true person of class would never classify another human being into any preconceived notion of a class as they have been brought up to believe that we are all human beings and in so, we all deserve to be treated with kindness. People are people and no matter the lot they have landed in life, their feelings do matter.

Class encompasses style, wit, manners and intelligence.

Class reflects the values of commitment, respect for learning, respect for accomplishments and respect for others feelings, as well as a respect for ourselves.

The truest measure of class is how we treat others, regardless of socionomic status, education, or lineage.

Class is confidence but with humility. It is grace. It bespeaks of aristocracy that has nothing to do with lineage or money, but more of ones integrity, courtesy, compassion, perserverance and indomitable spirit and reserve in difficult circumstances.

Over the years I have heard it stated you're either born with it or you're not, but this simply is not true. While yes, if you are born into a family that already embraces these thoughts and actions, you will of course be reared in this manner, but it can be learned by those who have that indomitable spirit to further their own self improvement, which is what families who had the financial means to send their daughters to places such as the now defunct Institut Villa Mont Choisi or the Institut Chateau Beaue- Cedre did by sending their daughters to these finishing schools, they were sending them off to be trained so to speak, which is what one can choose to do for theirself, by constantly working on their own self improvement. So in some ways, yes, you can truly buy class, but not by wearing Hermes or some other house of couture, but by investing in your own inner, as well as outer, self improvement.

No matter what position in life you were born, you always have the choice to become the person you wish to be, and with hope, it is the very best that you can be and you never stop striving for this.

To be a high end provider with class, it does take some investment of course in your wardrobe and appearance, but it takes on more subtle notions as well. The most important one I believe is really quite simple, to always treat others, no matter what their current place in life is, be it the homeless man or woman on the street or the COO of BP with respect, integrity, and honor to their being. Some might argue that there is no reason to be kind to the waiter, the homeless man or woman, or whomever, but there is. The kinder you are to others, the kinder your soul becomes. In life, we tend to attract others to us through our own actions. When our own actions are angry we will attract the angry, but when they are of a more gentle nature, grounded in compassion, humbleness, (yes, one can be humble in the world of companionship) intelligence and thoughtfulness, you will find yourself surrounded by the same.

When our Mothers told us; People may not always remember what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel, she was teaching the basic fundamentals of class and on the same chord, it does also apply to being a high end exceptional companion.

Classy Reply

"High class" is relative in this arena. And classy is something you just "are". It's not enough to say you are.

Classy Reply Originally Posted by MrGiz

Thank you Mr.Giz.

In life, we tend to attract others to us through our own actions. When our own actions are angry we will attract the angry, but when they are of a more gentle nature, grounded in compassion, humbleness, (yes, one can be humble in the world of companionship) intelligence and thoughtfulness, you will find yourself surrounded by the same.

When our Mothers told us; People may not always remember what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel, she was teaching the basic fundamentals of class and on the same chord, it does also apply to being a high end exceptional companion. Originally Posted by ZephyrineDevreux

I loved to read your words, Zephyrine - I want to add a quote that made me think about how similar what you wrote is to it ;-), so to speak, always try to anticipate your results of your action with carefulness (which - of course is a very very hard task to do):

“People know what they do; frequently they know why they do what they do; but what they don't know is what what they do does.”
― Michel Foucault

there is no such thing as traits or characteristics of an upscale high class provider. There are upscale high class women who also work as providers. You have to be whatever upscale and high class means in a person first and then if you happen to be a provider also, you are an upscale high class provider.

This is an interesting topic guess I will be framing my degree when im done lol.. but many guys that I have met guys who loves for a provider to treat them like a real girlfriend,show affection, be classy, and love what you do. Many have different prespectives of an upscale escort, I think what makes you upscale is how you carry yourself, a streetwalker is usually classified as drug addicts, and cheap.

Look like $600 an hour
Talk like $600 an hour
Walk like $600 an hour
Kiss like $600 an hour
Feel like $600 an hour
Smell like $600 an hour
Taste like $600 an hour

IMPRESS ME LIKE $600 an hour.