TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER

Well this contributes to the thread - how exactly? Or were you just looking for a place, any place, to impress us with your earning power? Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

You missed the point. Besides, if you'll look back over Blad's posting history, you'll note he's not much of a self-promoter. Go easy, OK?

We don't approve of personal attacks, Johnny. Let's keep it civil.

If there is anyone here on this board who epitomizes a true, high class provider who is not only beautiful, but sophisticated, kind, elegant and has impeccable manners, it's YOU, NinaSastri. Originally Posted by alluringava

That is nice to hear, but I think I am in very good company with all of the providers on ECCIE including YOU, Ava ;-).

We are all made of Stars ;-)

Nina

That is nice to hear, but I think I am in very good company with all of the providers on ECCIE including YOU, Ava ;-).

We are all made of Stars ;-)

Nina Originally Posted by ninasastri

And those celestial stars burn bright for the men. Hell they probably see stars after we're done sexually exhausting them LOL

And those celestial stars burn bright for the men. Hell they probably see stars after we're done sexually exhausting them LOL Originally Posted by alluringava

You bet!!

Tiffani that has happened to me also. And right after the famous question: Are you mixed? GTFOH lol...Your not the only one hun. Be safe out there. XOXOXO

That's true, but I know very High dollar women that does the complete opposite. But in a definitely classy way. I mean, professional porn shots in your ads: how classy does it get after that? LOL. It's not my approach, but she can command 1k/hr. And stay busy. From what I hear, she's as intelligent and as wild as they come.

And honestly, some of the best and diverse conversation I've ever had was with a farmer. Believe it or not, I've been told I'm smart: FOR A BLACK PERSON. TO MY FACE. I've also been told that I carry myself well. ALMOST LIKE I WASN'T BLACK. TO MY FACE! And not by the same person. Then the jerk asked me if I was mixed with White. Stereotyping intelligence and class to me is wrong. That's why I don't dwell on public opinion when it comes to people. I let people surprise me, and derive at my own opinion. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

This part is sad but TRUE. I am not a hdh but I do know my time is just as valuable. I'm a providing Guru but that attitude I have doesn't make me jack up my rates. In my personal world I'm shy, I live with my family,and I learned to squirt when I was 20. Those characteristics alone sets me apart from the rest along with my beautiful attitude, wonderful conversation, sexy face&body I'm unique.(I think so nobody has to tell me)
I also agree with previous comment about being ask if your mixed, is it that I'm educated and they sound dumb or are they serious?
Hahahaha I am Cuban and black so I know that's not wat they meant.

Lastly (I love this thread)
If I get fake boobs does that make me a hdh?? Lmao


Besides, no escort has regulars for more than 3 to 4 years. Clients change, relationship change, and if a friendship develops people usually don`t charge anymore. Clients grwo fond of other escorts for some time, and people that say they only see regulars simply lie.
The escorts who do see only regulars don`t risk the homepage , LE problems with ads and such stuff.
They go "off the radar" for a certain time, and then back up again to catch new regulars, when the old ones moved on to newer territorry.
That`s how it most often goes.[/QUOTE]

Believe it or not, I've been told I'm smart: FOR A BLACK PERSON. TO MY FACE. I've also been told that I carry myself well. ALMOST LIKE I WASN'T BLACK. TO MY FACE! And not by the same person. Then the jerk asked me if I was mixed with White. Stereotyping intelligence and class to me is wrong. That's why I don't dwell on public opinion when it comes to people. I let people surprise me, and derive at my own opinion. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

That sounds like someone was trying to bait you. People have said things like that to me, and I think it was just to get a rise out of me. Some of the best were:

"I love your hair like that. I mean there's no reason an escort can't LOOK sophisticated."

"You are incredibly hot. Don't let people tell you you're fat."

"You are the hottest girl here tonight. Everyone else looks like they've been beaten with the ugly stick." so, I guess that meant I was the least ugly of the uggos.

Some people will try to attack whatever they think will be a sensitive spot for you in an attempt to gain leverage. For an ethnic minority the backhanded compliment about their ethnicity's stereotypes. For a woman, a backhanded compliment about her weight, beauty, or intelligence. It's pretty ridiculous, but I see it a lot. Lately I've been seeing it a lot with Latina women. Immature men think it's really clever to call a Dominican a Puerto Rican, or a Colombian a Mexican. I'm not really sure that ethnic pride will make any woman overlook an adult being that bad with geography.

My lady (SB) is an extremely classy woman. Why? Because she is highly intelligent, a wonderful conversationalist, kind, caring and, above all else, always a lady. Yes, her BCD skills are amazing, but that is not why I choose to spend my time and money with her exclusively. It is her skills outside the bedroom that keeps me enthralled. We met initially as client/provider and our relationship has evolved into what we now have. I care about her deeply and I know that she cares for me as well. I can take her to any fine dining establishment, the theatre or the symphony and be proud of the lady on my arm. Class can sometimes be difficult to define, but most of us know it when we see it. Far too many people equate class with money. I know many folks with lots of money who are quite without class.

That sounds like someone was trying to bait you. People have said things like that to me, and I think it was just to get a rise out of me. Some of the best were:

"I love your hair like that. I mean there's no reason an escort can't LOOK sophisticated."

"You are incredibly hot. Don't let people tell you you're fat."

"You are the hottest girl here tonight. Everyone else looks like they've been beaten with the ugly stick." so, I guess that meant I was the least ugly of the uggos.

Some people will try to attack whatever they think will be a sensitive spot for you in an attempt to gain leverage. For an ethnic minority the backhanded compliment about their ethnicity's stereotypes. For a woman, a backhanded compliment about her weight, beauty, or intelligence. It's pretty ridiculous, but I see it a lot. Lately I've been seeing it a lot with Latina women. Immature men think it's really clever to call a Dominican a Puerto Rican, or a Colombian a Mexican. I'm not really sure that ethnic pride will make any woman overlook an adult being that bad with geography. Originally Posted by AnnelieseBell

Girl, don't get me started on the gems I get from my job and other areas of my personal life. Those statements came from clients! I seem to attract clients that are on the fence with Black people as a race. They're attracted to Black women, but have negative experiences at some level. For some reason, when they meet me, they're not only impressed with my overall presentation, but the little things that I know, or my table manners. I've actually had to tell a client that I haven't always been fed from a trough....

I had one client where all we ever talked about was him being discriminated against by Black people. He would say things like, 'man I wish I could bring you here to help me land this deal with these Black business owners. They're not saying yes because they don't like dealing with White people. I can tell.'

It's always hard trying to defy the stereotypes against you in any arena.

There are many things, imo,that separates the large gap between ordinary providers and the elite upscale high class providers. Looks really have nothing to do with it. Here is my list, in no particular order, of what distinguishes a high class provider from an average provider.

1. A high class provider should be on time
2. A high class provider should remain consistent in her communications
3. A high class provider will never over hype herself on her ads and posts and mislead the hobby community.
4. A high class provider should avoid talking about hot button issues and not try to impress you with her knowledge or background. A truly confident person knows what they are about and does not feel the need to boast.
5. A high class provider will always find a way to distinguish herself, either subtle or obvious, from the rest of the local providers.

We all have are own opinions of what a high class provider is. Reviews are somewhat important, but while one hobbyist might get his world rocked by a particular provider, the next hobbyist may not. We all have different tastes, and that is perfectly fine. I think the best thing to do as far as finding a high class provider is to do your homework and have fun trying to find your own definition of an HCP. There are a lot of HCPs out there.............

I agree 100%

There are many things, imo,that separates the large gap between ordinary providers and the elite upscale high class providers. Looks really have nothing to do with it. Here is my list, in no particular order, of what distinguishes a high class provider from an average provider.

1. A high class provider should be on time
2. A high class provider should remain consistent in her communications
3. A high class provider will never over hype herself on her ads and posts and mislead the hobby community.
4. A high class provider should avoid talking about hot button issues and not try to impress you with her knowledge or background. A truly confident person knows what they are about and does not feel the need to boast.
5. A high class provider will always find a way to distinguish herself, either subtle or obvious, from the rest of the local providers.

We all have are own opinions of what a high class provider is. Reviews are somewhat important, but while one hobbyist might get his world rocked by a particular provider, the next hobbyist may not. We all have different tastes, and that is perfectly fine. I think the best thing to do as far as finding a high class provider is to do your homework and have fun trying to find your own definition of an HCP. There are a lot of HCPs out there............. Originally Posted by Malcolm1357

High level of quality service= High class.

If you know you are going to have a fantastic time
when you're with her.

When you leave you say to yourself, she was worth
every penny. (Being realistic here)

Makes her client feel like a king even if he is really
a pauper. (Even though YMMV will always factor in,
hey a girl can only do so much)

A subjective thing. Depends on the needs, desires, and
expectations of the client, if they are reasonable and
are fully enjoyed.

An honest representation of herself and her services
provided and an honest and consistent fulfillment of them.

Stable, offers no unwanted drama or unwanted surprises.

This I think pretty well would cover the whole range of
different providers, all shapes and sizes and different kinds
of services offered, as well as price ranges.

i would say the "i only bang ceo, politicians, corporate america" type girl defines as high class. expectation is on another realm by itself. Won't step foot in a holiday inn....but hotel zaza is her type. she keeps her little black book and walks like she owns more stock than Bill Gates himself.

I guess that is part one. Other part, conversation, beauty, discretion, etc...builds the other characteristics.

My $.02 on the subject ....

I hobby perhaps once a month, when I do, I want the following:

great TCB skills as I plan weeks in advance
A little bit of playful banter via email or text
Confirm she is still a go about 24 hrs before
Arrives around time, or communicates otherwise (outcall)
Is ready on time, with clean location (Incall)
Relatively low volume

Love when she dresses appropriately .... varies depending on situation
Gives me her full attention
Engages my mind, playful and flirty
Has fun

Awesome BCD
Uses discretion at all times.

Now when you couple this, with her presumed stunning looks and a decent personality, I am willing to invest appropriately for multiple hours.