this thread and the traci brooks post that ~ze~ linked to [entire thread here - http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=251152] are great and not so great.
great - cos it might enlighten and inform some people about some of the things involved in being a provider. side question - what will we do w/ that info?
being one who likes knowing the back story of things, it's interesting to read about what certain providers do and don't do.
thus, i can appreciate and understand why providers charge what they do.
not so great - attempting to figure out how this works [just like anything in this universe of ours] can be so mind boggling that it can take all or most of the fun out of it. boooo!
being one who is in this for the delites (and not the b.s.), i really dont want to know what all the provider is going to use the money for or why. just like i really dont want to know what, how, and/or why any restaurant or service business is going to use the money i pay them. [i read one time that a Central Market needed to gross $400K per day to break even!!! and i just paid a plumber 350 to replace a hot water valve stem in my shower!!]
so, i'll keep it simple.
i'll meet with female providers that seem to offer the delites i'm interested in.
i'll pay them their quoted fee.
i'll leave.
and if i felt that their delites were really deliteful, i'll probably go visit her again.
thanks to all the women who have let me visit them and share and enjoy their delites!!!!
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